i dreamed several about my ex girlfriend coming online after a long time we broke up and that she was trying to play some computer games...later this also happen

and last week i dreamed she was with this other guy and that she told it to me so rude on the computer...this happened on 15/02

this night i dreamed that she called me and explained everything,and later said she was sorry and wants to be with me and only me,and very strange how i heard her exact voice in the dream and the exact expressions and the same way she talks,and in my real live i don't even seem to remember this always,but this seemed so real,it all fitted perfectly the whole story,everything she told me,like she really did tell it to me,

can you explain these things?

because you told us many times about your dreams

can you explain how come that all these things came true?

what is going to happen next? is this dream also gonna come true?

-- sdqa (sdqa@sdqa.Com), February 18, 2005

Answers

I odnt know. I dreamed reccurently I was the Pope a few Months back, I don't beelive this will nessisarily happen.

However, their are soem quantum theories that may explain it, but Im only interuptign because saying all this si far more interestign than "BumP"

-- ZAROVE (ZAROFF3@JUNO.COM), February 18, 2005.

SDQA

I used to have dreams that she was right next to me. I would wake up and reach over to hold her. She was not there. The dreams felt so real. I would stare into the darkness with tears.

The loss is very great and it will take time to find peace. You are going through the pains of losing someone close to you. Eventually, the dreams will vanish when you finally let go of her. If you do not let go, the pain will continue.

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-- rod (elreyrod@yahoo.com), February 18, 2005.

And it's almost like grieving the death of someone, though they are still alive, they are gone, so the pain is quite similar.

I have had experiences like that too, SDQA . . . they are sort of surreal! You had a relationship with her, probably physical, which connects the two of you supernaturally, or in the spirit realm. One thing you could do, though this is painful, is ask God to "disconnect" you spiritually from her. You need to disconnect so you can heal.

If you like, we could pray for you in this way, but only with your permission.

Peace to you SDQA,

Gail

-- Gail (rothfarms@socket.net), February 18, 2005.

no thanks gail,it may not be much,but i still have a very very little piece of hope that she comes back...i know you mean it well but let's god decide what's the best for us both,he knows better than you and me,maybe this all happens for a reason that i don't know yet,it's like the game for the little children when you have to connect the points with numbers above it with your pencil and in the end you get a drawing or something and while you are doing it you don't directly see what it's gonna be but you just need to connect the points and in the end you'll get one nice drawing

only my problem now is that i really can't eat,my stomach hurts and when i eat it hurts much more,it's so strange,and i didn't ate nothing for 4 days and i lost 4kg...i'm not feeling very well now

could you give me some advice about that?

-- sdqa (sdqa@sdqa.Com), February 18, 2005.

The firts advc is to drink S-L-O-W-L-Y soem fluids, and rehydrate, then a lught meal. Perhaps vegies, steamed, or maccaroni.

Then heavier foods when you re-adjust form the fast.

Then rest.

Then another small meal.

Will make you feel better.

-- ZAROVE (ZAROFF3@JUNO.COM), February 18, 2005.

SDQA

You will make it through this. Please do as Zarove suggests. It is ok to eat and to rest. Give your body energy.

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-- rod (elreyrod@yahoo.com), February 18, 2005.

ok i will,thanks for your adivce zarove

-- sdqa (sdqa@sdqa.Com), February 18, 2005.

Sdqa, with regard to your dream about the internet and the formr girlfriend.

Is this girlfriend the last one you had or one from a recent past? ex girlfriend coming online

If it is the last one. then there may be a reconciliation.

Could it work out again? Yes.

Will it last? Not if there is still pain inside of you.

If it is someone from a distant past, then forget it. It will never work out . Those kind of relationships will work after you are past 50 years of age.

The Christian Yahwist

-- Elpidio Gonzalez (egonval@yahoo.com), February 18, 2005.

it's the last one...we broke up...we weren't together for a long time...than we were toghether again,broke up again,over some days together again,and the day after valentine she dumped me for another guy

-- sdqa (sdqa@sdqa.Com), February 19, 2005.

...she just talked to me...not that we are back together...it was on the internet...but she explained me things i didn't know before...just like in my dream...now i just need to wake up...and finish the conversation the way i wanted in my head

and you know...i haven't prayed for so long...and she told me something happened bad and i was so upset,i was so despret and i prayed to god and put all my faith in him...and everything was ok the other day...and i didn't pray after that...i doubted if god really had something to do with it...and she broke up for the first time...and i cried and i prayed again...and a miracle happened...she came back...and i forgot to pray again...and now this happend and i cried so much and i prayed yesterday and the day before yesterday...and the part of my dream came also true...just like the same part of the other dreams...and there is still hope now,i think i learned something very important here...just like the story when the israelites were freed from egypt...and the see opened...somehow...and a true miracle happened...they got away...and still they lost their faith in god and were angry about the manna etc...maybe...everything really happens for a reason,in this very moment i believe so,i'm just gonna pray now that i don't loose my faith,not in my Father,nor in myself and that i never forget this

thanks anyway for all your support,you really can't imagine how much it helped when i had nobody else to talk with and when i could say it only to a few very close friends,and i apologise for the times i was rude and hurted some of you,my intentions weren't bad really,but my approach was many times,sorry for that...but you still helped me and gave me advice and support,you people are really great,thanks so much from the deepest of my heart,

sdqa

-- sdqa (sdqa@sdqa.Com), February 19, 2005.

sdqa,

I think most everyone here saw the good in you. Thats something that really can't be completely hidden. It always seems to peak out here and there. I don't really think there are any hard feelings around here. You were the force behind lots of good discussions.

I hope things continue to improve for you.

-- Jim (furst@flasfh.net), February 19, 2005.

Ah! wonderful! That's a good switch for you, SDQA. Be strong.

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-- rod (elreyrod@yahoo.com), February 19, 2005.

You will see her again, sdqa.

You need to see her to finally let go.

The Christian Yahwist

-- Elpidio Gonzalez (egonval@yahoo.com), February 19, 2005.

Are you still alive, sdqa?

The Christian Yahwist

-- Elpidio Gonzalez (egonval@yahoo.com), February 22, 2005.

yeah,i was away to amsterdam

-- sdqa (sdqa@sdqa.Com), February 23, 2005.

Sdqa, I hear there is a street there where Prostitutes are lined up for sale (that is for sex).

How long is it?

It bothers and pains me to know there is still people who sell their bodies.

The Christian Yahwist

-- Elpidio Gonzalez (egonval@yahoo.com), February 23, 2005.

I heard they also had hamsters doing the same. Those little rodents are from Hamsterdam. Yes, I know. That was a stupid joke. Sorry.

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-- rod (elreyrod@yahoo.com), February 23, 2005.

Rod, that was really, really, really BAD!

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SDQA, I hope you're eating. Those fitness shakes are very easy on the stomach, soothing, and full of nutrition. I hope you get some of them, and start getting some nutrition.

You're analogy above about the drawing a picture out of dots IS RIGHT ON!!! Like pieces of a puzzle . . you get a piece here and a piece there, you can't see the whole thing until you get the last piece!

I pray that God will give you "peace" as you wait for the last "piece". Just know, though, that I will keep you close to my heart in prayer for a very long time!

You're going to be alright!

Gail

-- Gail (rothfarms@socket.net), February 23, 2005.