Declaration of Nullity

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A lot of posts are about marriage, divorce,and the seeking of declarations of nullity. It is an unfortunate reality.

I have posted some on questions about writs (declarations) of nullity, some due to personal knowledge.

I have been going through the tribunal review process for approximately a year and a half.

Yesterday, I learned that my Declaration of Nullity was granted.

The process is complicated, arduous and requires patience, but is well worth it in the long run.

It also cleanses the soul.

For those who have prayed for me and my situation, thank you. God bless,

-- john placette (jplacette@catholic.org), September 09, 2003

Answers

God bless you, John P.
I am very happy that your soul is at peace.
JFG

-- J. F. Gecik (jfgecik@hotmail.com), September 09, 2003.

A whole year and a half???????? And I'm sure it was God that signed the piece of paper too, not!!!

-- Anon (anon@none.com), September 09, 2003.

If it was 1095 B or C it is likely a fraudulent annulment given out like prophylactics at high schools.

Karl

-- Karl (Parkerkajwen@hotmail.com), September 10, 2003.


If you are interested in the truth, send it to Rome for the Second Instance. Truth is more likely there.

Karl

-- Karl (Parkerkajwen@hotmail.com), September 10, 2003.


John,

I'm happy that it turned out well for you.

-- GT (nospam@nospam.com), September 10, 2003.



Karl, I don't know your personal circumstances, but I am sorry that your personal experiences have left you feeling harmed.

Everyone,

Everyone's circumstances are different. Mine, in my opinion, was cut and dried. Still it took time. A year and a half is nothing to sneeze at.

Going into the process, I knew what was needed and supplied it to the tribunal. My priest helped me a great deal.

On the written portion of the process, I wrote my autobiography. I have made some terrible mistakes in my life, (and no adultery was not one of them),but you can't go back. All you can do is be honest with yourself, your priest and the tribunal. I spilled my guts. It was hard, but I feel better for it.

Most of us are more the prodigal than the good son. Moral -- God is waiting with open arms.

A person can't force someone to love them, treat them fairly, or even be a Christian. Everyone makes their own choices.

I just urge everyone to keep trying. Forgive others and God will forgive us.

God bless,

-- john placette (jplacette@catholic.org), September 10, 2003.


For the benefit of others: Karl is refering to Canon Law:

CHAPTER IV : MATRIMONIAL CONSENT

Can. 1095 The following are incapable of contracting marriage:

1° those who lack sufficient use of reason;

2° those who suffer from a grave lack of discretionary judgment concerning the essential matrimonial rights and obligations to be mutually given and accepted;

3° those who, because of causes of a psychological nature, are unable to assume the essential obligations of marriage.

******************************************************************** In my declaration, the tribunal just statest that one or more elements were lacking. They did not go into detail. I am very, very, confident of the orthodox decisions reached by the diocesan tribunal. The priests involved are more than competent. God bless, John

-- john placett (jplacette@catholic.org), September 10, 2003.


Dear John Placette,

I'm happy for you as well. Spilling your guts is not the most pleasant experience. Been there, done that. In my case, I'm still waiting for a resolution on the initial decision and its coming up on 2.5 years since I originally filed the Petition.

In my case, over time and as the result of diligent searching and study, I've come to see that my sacramental marriage is actually valid. I've been reminded of this in small ways too, of a supernatural nature. For some reason, God in His wisdom knows, He expects me to be witness to his teaching on the indissolubility of a valid sacramental marriage.

I'll pray for you. Please pray for me and my journey as well. I have three sons, as well as a well-meaning but also misguided wife. She happens to be quite beautiful too, although she would be the last person in the world to admit it. Definitely worth pining away for. ;)

-- Pat Delaney (pat@patdelaney.net), September 11, 2003.


I am so happy for you. I don't know if you remember me posting that I was going through a lagamin (sp?) but I received mine as well recently. Mine only took about 6 months, but my ex husband had a prior bond. My RCIA classes start this coming week and I've never felt more like my life is finally coming together. God Bless!!!!!

-- Jennifer Lee (JLee6773@aol.com), September 13, 2003.

Hello Jennifer,

Yes. I do remember you. You were the woman with that really great guy who was actually supporting your conversion even though he himself is not Catholic. Thats absolutley great about your RCIA! You are entering a beautiful period in your life. I'm very happy for you.

-Pat

-- Pat Delaney (pat@patdelaney.net), September 21, 2003.



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