How long after you were single... : LUSENET : A Country Singletree : One Thread

... Did it take you to begin the trip to a possible relationship again?

For me, I started bar hopping and casual dating about 2 months after my divorce finaled, but I didn't find true direction until another year had passed. I now find myself concentrating in pursuing the one special woman that I hope that I have found. Its progressing slow, steady and showing promise everyday and most of all, it leaves me with a feeling of a special influence on the day just ended as I drift off to sleep.

How about the rest of you. Are you starting the trip back yet?

-- Jay Blair in N. AL (, June 18, 2003


Working on month 4 of being single. Not actively pursuing any relationship - but not closed off to one either! Not into the bar scene and the grocery store isn't exactly crawling with single men so I sit and wait...for the self-sufficient farmer I seek!

-- Sandy Main (, June 18, 2003.

still just dating,, havnt found the "one" that makes me flip yet. Just when she is looking promising,,something happens.

-- Stan (, June 19, 2003.

Hey Jay! I never would marry anyone, but went with the serial monogamy theme for a long time. After 5 years of self imposed celibacy and singleness...I met him at the hardware store, he turned around and smiled at me. lol. For the first time, I let God pick. I hope that doesn't sound preachy to you, it is just the truth. Best to all of you!

-- Doreen (, June 20, 2003.

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