I found this brilliant site for people who have discovered their spouse was cheating on them on the net, and did not realise how common cyber sex was!!

here are some stories i pasted from Chatcheaters.com

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Hello people...i am a cheat. Its not because i dont love my man its because i love the excitement and adrelinen rush. I always cheat on my men and i try so hard not to. I am engaged now and cheated on my fiance with my ex-husband. It happens. I never want my fiance to leave me. If my fiance ever cheats on me he will be out the door...cause i know once a cheat always a cheat!

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Ok. People who are trying to work things out with someone who cheated on you, you people are fools and deserve whatever you get for staying with them.

People who have affairs with someone, even though they know that they are already married or taken, are scum. You people need to jump off a cliff or run onto a highway.

And people who love having affairs for the "adrenaline rush", are whores. You should work for a brother or a pimp. You would make a lot more money and you wouldn't hurt anyones feelings.

There I think that covers everyone..

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Why are you women so surprised when you find out your man is having an affair, have you ever thought of the reason for his doing so.Usually its because youv'e become boring , the sex you used to have is just a dream , i dare say he has tried to"fire" it up on ocassions only to be told , "I have a headache" " Don.t be silly , I'm not doing that". Don't forget , for every man cheating there has to be a woman, well in most cases anyway. Why dont you women try a little harder. I will tell you one thing for sure, should YOU ever cheat on your man I bet you any money you like you would do things with your lover that you wouldn't dream of doing with your man, and that ladies is why we men cheat. This message is also aimed at the men who are being cheated on , get it together or you will lose her, but as the old saying goes. " Familiarity breeds contempt" Just think on that then go out and enjoy the forbidden fruits of sex.

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HELLO I AM A 27 YR OLD LADY, I BEEN MARRIED SINCE 1997 BUT BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND SINCE 1992, WE MET IN HIGHSCHOOL.. I HAVE PROBLEMS, MY HUBAND DOESNT SHOW ME ANY ATTENTION, AND IS ALLWAYS GOING OUTSIDE WORKING IN THE BACK YARD..SO I GOT TIRED OF THIS, I MET A GUY AT A REST AREA WHERE I WORK IM A CUSTODIAN, THIS GUY IS OLDER THAN ME, HE IS 39. AND HE IS A VERY SWEET GUY, AND SHOWS ME LOTS OF ATTENTION, BUT HE'S IN THE SAME BOAT I AM, HE IS ALSO MARRIED, BUT HE SAYS HE COULDNT NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE, AND THE REASON IS BECAUSE HE HAS KIDS, AND DOESNT WANNA BREAK UP THE FAMILY...ME & HIM SNEAK AND MEET BEHIND MALLS, OR DOWN DIRT ROADS AND WE HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME, I THINK IM IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN...I LIKE HIM SO MUCH, I REALLY DONT CARE IF HE LEAVES HIS WIFE OR NOT, AS LONG AS HE IS MINE PART TIME...SO IS THIS A BAD THING LADIES?

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I have been in a loving relationship for 4 years and I totally adore my girlfriend. So why do I consistently cheat. I have had about 10 extra relationship encounters either sexual or just personal contact and I always totally disgust myself afterwards. It usually occurs through drink or when I work away from home. Does anyone have answers?

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I started to blame my husband for my unhappiness. I was on an emotional roller coaster, and he was an easy target. I told him that I wanted a divorce, and threw him out. I started to go out

-- Mark Rees (MarkandSue@btclick.net), November 19, 2002