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Do you have an embarrassing hickey story?

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


Well, I've already told mine in the entry, but I have another one about a former co-worker, too.

She was going on vacation to Florida for a week and had just started dating a guy. When she came into work the day she was to leave, she had a big scarf on her neck, which was later revealed to be covering a big hickey.

She explained that the new boyfriend didn't want her messing around on him while she was away in Florida so he wanted to leave a mark on her that showed that she was "taken." I was horrified to hear this story so I asked her "why didn't he just pee on you? Isn't that the standard way to mark your territory?"

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000

Heh heheh. I don't have an embarassing hickey story...I've never let anyone give me one! I think they hurt!

Is something amiss here? Are they supposed to feel good or something? Please explain this mystery to me!

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2000

Getting a hickey may be slightly painful, but depending on what you were doing at the time, you may not notice.

Anyway, some people are really into pain.

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2000

I'm with Andrea. What is it with hickies anyway? He sucked on your neck enough to make a purple spot appear. Does that feel good?

I would rather kiss my girlfriend on the lips in a passionate manner. I'm sure she would derive more enjoyment from that.

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2000

Well, Chris and Andrea, I hate to tell you this, but it's also true some people don't turn the lights out when romance ensues.

Different strokes...yada yada, etc., etc.,

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2000

As for the issue of hickeys and pain, yes it hurts a little bit, but not much--the skin on your neck is very thin and bruises easily. I didn't know he was giving me one, and he didn't do it on purpose.

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2000

Oh, come on, the documentary on Edison couldn't have been that interesting!

-- Anonymous, July 09, 2000

My girlfriend and I both have very sensitive necks and we frequently request getting bitten there - not enough to draw blood, but hard enough to cause that "hurts so good" feeling. Mmmmm. Hickeys - sometimes big scary-looking ones - ensue. Neither of us mind, unless we have a business meeting the next day.

BTW, Jen asked if peeing isn't the standard way of marking territory. For human males, it isn't. Ejaculation is. (Don't you watch any porn?) ;)


-- Anonymous, July 10, 2000

I would much rather be bitten on the neck than be kissed on the lips. No contest there.

I don't get hickies anymore because Jeremy and I have declared a sort of detente: I won't make you go to work with a big bruise on your neck if you won't do it to me. Once in a while as a joke one of us will give the other one a stomach or thigh hickey, but we do it on purpose and it's usually during a pillow fight or something.

I have a vague recollection from high school (not that anyone was giving me hickies then) that you could lighten them by pressing the top of a tube of lipstick very hard against the skin, sort of creating some suction. I think I tried it once and it did work, at least to the point where I could cover the remaining mark with concealor.

Just in case you watch any more of those Edison documentaries! (Is that what the kids are calling it nowadays?)

-- Anonymous, July 10, 2000

My boyfriend and I have also had the Hickey Conversation. No prolonged suction in one place when making out. That just begs for hickies. It kills the romance, sure, when one is passionately kissing the other's neck and one of us yells, "You've been there too long. Transfer!!" but it stops hickeys. And isn't that the most important thing?

A friend was babysitting for a young child who owned one of those plastic dart-gun things. Em thought it would be funny if she acted like she had been hit by a dart and stuck one to her head. Poor Em left it on too long and ended up with a hickey about an inch and a half in diameter dead smack in the middle of her forehead for about a week.

My cousin also had a very enthusiastic girlfriend who once left him with such a string of severe hickeys he looked like he had been mauled by a Hoover. It was terrible.

-- Anonymous, July 10, 2000

Back in college I was joking around with my girlfriend and told her I was going to suck her eye out. We had been drinking, which is no excuse, but I leaned over and ..well...kinda sucked on her eye. Ho, ho we laughed. Until about fifteen minutes later she developed this pretty-horrific looking black-eye. Well, I felt like a bastard. She took it in stride and thought it was funny, but perhaps difficult to explain. See, I had accidentally stabbed her in the leg about two months before in another failed show of affection. Just to be safe I haven't expressed affection for anyone since....

-- Anonymous, July 10, 2000

Once when i was 14-15 , i was spending the night at a friends house.....Her brother just happened to be my boyfriend (tee-hee what mom didn't know ) he was like 17-18 ....... musta been 18 , he's friends teased him about "jail bait" ..... ANYWAY..... we were makeing out in the living room in the middle of the night and he gave me this HUGE hicky.......i loved it...... but the next morning...... when i had to go home i was frantic...... WHAT WOULD MY MOM THINK OR DO!!!!!!! Well i tryed the frozen spoon trick....... no good...... conealer just made it worse...... so i went home anyway..... hopeing no one would notice...... Mom noticed... "Is that a hicky on your neck? " "oh no mom....... the baby was playing w/ me and pinched my neck, and left this mark" ( they had a baby in the house )

AND SHE BOUGHT IT!!!!!! HEE HEE HEE HEE HEE or at least she acted as if she bought it..... i didn't get into trouble and i got to go back SEVRAL TIMES but after that day i never got another hicky... didn't want to risk it!!

Hee hee hee untill i was married that is!!!!!!

-- Anonymous, July 12, 2000

Hi all. I'm 13, and I've been with this guy (might I add he's soooo cute. Well, his friends keep teasing him because we've been together for 3 years and we've never kissed! Well, he's gonna try and I might add the hickey might join it. I was curious about what they are like. If you can help or comment, e-mail me.

-- Anonymous, October 24, 2000

Well young Lauren let me tell ya. First, how big are your boyfriends lips? It has a lot to do with latching power.

I had a girlfriend back in my military days, that had huge, supple, soft luscious lips - perfect for kissing - very cushiony. One night, in a fit of teenager like hormones, we proceeded to tattoo each others body with hickeys. It was awful, painful and uncomfortably erotic.

On and and on it went until, during one of hour 'rest periods', in the wee hours of the morning daylight I noticed a bit of red on her bottom lip. My first thought was "Damn. I knew it. She drew blood." To this day I can almost remember our positions and the exact moment. It was a hickey on top of a hickey. The mother of all hickeys. Envision a thousand mosquitoes barelling down into one single pore on your body. It hurt bad enough to make me yelp. I've never had leaches but I think I know what crossing the Amazon must feel like.

Futher investigation revealed that she had not sucked blood from my body but rather, the cumulated effect of sucking like a hoover all night had caused her gum to bleed a little. (or maybe I bit her - ? That's a whole new topic - we'll save that one til your 15th birthday)

It was a relief knowing that she was not feeding on me, but I tell ya, I think that incident was a forecasting of things to come. She is now my ex-wife. (she got to feed on me after all)

Anyway, the hickeys. I looked as if I'd been beaten and choked. They didn't go away for almost a week. They turned funny colors too. Hickeys can be fun, but, I prefer at this stage, if I get 'em, to get 'em where nobody's gonna see 'em. I've never been a fan of the turtleneck.

-- Anonymous, October 26, 2000

I once got out out with this guy I didn't even like THAT much. I was really drunk (17 at the time, i'm 18 now;) at the time and we met on the stairs and just started in at it. He gave me a hickey and I didn't even notice it until he says, "whats that on your neck?" and starts laughing!! But anyways, I didn't want my mom to say anything, so I told her it was from swimming. I hit the rope as I was going under it and it bruised. hee he he! She believed me toO! But no, hickies dont hurt.

-- Anonymous, November 12, 2000

Hey, I have a hickie and it's my first one. BUT I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO GET RID OF IT! plz email me with answers. thanks

-- Anonymous, March 31, 2001

My mom was driving my b/f home, hes 14, oh yes exciting, we were in the back seat, all of a sudden he starts laughing. hes like ops. I was pissed. we were both 14. my mom hasnt noticed yet. but she might. can you email me with suggestions on getting rid of it? i've tryed ice, spoon, asprin, toothpaste, concelear, and the stuff thats supposed to get rid of pimples, and i've eaten tons of bannas. so anyone got any more suggestions email me! :)

-- Anonymous, April 01, 2001

hi...I've never had a hicky(thank god!) or given one... I think it would enjoyable though!! My neck gets a sensation outta a lot of stuff...so I think it would feel good...

-- Anonymous, April 10, 2001

I had always been relatively shy around girls and somewhat nervous about making out with them. I never had any problems getting dates but most of them tended to be a little more aggressive than I was. Since I rarely made the first move - they did. All of my romances were after high school - I graduated at age 17.

There was one girl who told me the day after our first date, "I would have given you one but I didn't want to embarrass you (we worked at the same place). She did give me a couple of small ones the next time (my first ones) but I think she was the one who got embarrassed and wouldn't do it any more. I never gave her any (hey, I didn't know how).

I was on a first date with another relationship and when I was about to drop her off (I think we were both 17 or 18) I didn't try to kiss her. She simply looked at me and said, "I draw blood." I pretended not to know what she meant and replied, "How are you going to do that?" She went right for the neck and took her time (and I found out she was a GREAT kisser!) She only left one but it was a big one. I might add I did find it highly erotic. She'd work on it for awhile then we'd start kissing then she'd go back and work on it some more. Let's just say I learned to like them a lot. Still, I never gave her one.

Years later I was on a blind double date and when we got back to their place the other couple went upstairs to bed, leaving us on the couch. She had to ask me to kiss her (it was her birthday) so I did. She commented that I had a nice neck. I told her I kinda liked being with female vampires so I went home with several relatively small ones on my neck and torso.

I played bagpipes with a Scottish band and took some women to functions where I wore my kilt. I don't know why, but many women become very agressive when in the company of a kilted gent. I wound up with more than a few hickeys in some areas the sun didn't shine.

My most memorable (and embarrassing) hickey was a result of my only one night stand. She was related to the fiancee of a guy in my organization. We all went out to dinner (I came stag), we all got totally hammered and I wound up going home with them. I thought I would wind up with one of the other 4 ladies in his party but one came up and said, "I'll be down in a minute." During our lovemaking (yes, my first time) I remember I did ask her if she would give me one. Boy, talk about intense! It was big, round, and purple and 'way up high. It was also the most painful hickey I'd ever had. Not a severe pain but it did sting when she first gave it to me and it continued to burn for sereral days afterward. When it was still fairly new I was in the base exchange and this very personable black girl running the register grabbed my sleeve and announced, "Hey everyone, look at this!" I just chuckled. It took nearly 3 week for it to fade away and I hate old hickeys. We had the option of wearing a tie in the office so I did but you could still see it peeking above the collar. I never saw her again.

Some people are total jerks about giving unwanted hickeys or when blatantly showing them off (don't you just hate those pimply faced kids at CompUSA with crude looking ones)? I do enjoy being with women who give them and, as part of lovemaking find them exceptionally erotic. I have become a stickler for style and technique, however.

-- Anonymous, May 26, 2001

Hehe after spending the day yesterday with my bf i have 5 hickies on my neck, i wore a scarf today and said i have a fever and i'm hot and cold at the same time... thank goodness it wasn't sunny. anyways my neck does hurt from the hickies but hell with that it feels awesome being kissed on the neck! its worth it!

-- Anonymous, June 05, 2001

Look some where intimate - its between you1

-- Anonymous, June 14, 2001

Look some where intimate - its between you!

-- Anonymous, June 14, 2001

Ok, here we go, this one was very embarassing. I was going in for a job interview on monday and it was sunday night, and with this girl I had just gotten together with that night (we're still together 2 years later now) got me alone and she came on with a very unexpected force, especially since she's my first. She first began by kissing a biting my neck extremely hard, then we went about a very passionate making-out during which she asked if she could give me a hickey. She was much more experienced than I so she knew how to drive me nuts. I was too turned on to even tell you what 1+1 was let alone remember I had a job interview the next day so I stupidily said yes. She had already figured out the skin on my neck was the only place that she could get to that was very sensitive and soft so she gave it towards the front of my neck in a very high up place. After her and I calmed down a bit she looked over at me and saw the hickey and just began laughing her butt off. When I got home much later I looked in the mirror and saw what she was laughing about, a hickey about three inches long that was a reddish purple, that not even my mid-back length hair couldn't cover.

So the next day I went in for the interview and got sat down in an office with a man in a suit, who immediately asked me what the band- aids on my neck were for, so I told him my sister starteled me while I was shaving this morning and I cut myself pretty good, but he obviously didn't buy this as he reached over the table and ripped the band-aids off. He sat back in his chair and knowing that I was shot down this time I stood up and quietly cussed under my breath as I started to turn around. Then the man reached over and clapped my shoulder and said, "For now wear that one with pride until you start work next week, but when you start try to get them in less noticible places." He then chuckled, smiled, and continued, "If you weren't trying to cover it up I wouldn't have hired you, and never think I'm as uptight as I look."

That was my first job, and for a first job it paid well, but now I'm mid level management (Not high enough for a suit but still casual enough for khakis and a polo shirt) And that man in the suit is still my boss but I'm his right hand man and his name is Tomson.

-- Anonymous, June 24, 2001

I need someone to give me tips on how to remove a hickie.

-- Anonymous, June 26, 2001

Just find somebody to suck you from the inside.

-- Anonymous, June 27, 2001

if there is any good way to get rid of a hickey somebody e-mail me and tell me please and hurry too!

-- Anonymous, June 28, 2001


-- Anonymous, June 29, 2001

Most of the hickeys I've had have been way too big for a band-aid. And it's not like I can tell people I cut myself shaving...

-- Anonymous, June 30, 2001

When you're small, everything seems much bigger. (so I've heard)

-- Anonymous, July 01, 2001

Actually, Jen, Band-aids are available in a wide variety of sizes -- including ones large enough to cover even the largest of hickeys. As for a cover story, geez, use your imagination. You could claim there is salve under the bandage to treat some (itchy) condition, such as a bee sting, spider bite or mysterious rash.

And coryglen, that was so lame. I can't tell for sure if you're trying to insult Jen Wade or myself (but I can guess). In either case, if "everything seems much bigger," then both the hickey and the Band-aid would seem bigger, resulting in no loss of judgement. Hence your little quip makes no sense in context.

-- Anonymous, July 01, 2001

When you're small everything seems like an insult.

-- Anonymous, July 01, 2001

Oh, I'll take your word for it then.


-- Anonymous, July 03, 2001

Flatter me all you want. I'm still not going to fuck you.

-- Anonymous, July 03, 2001

*** A SOLUTION FOR HICKIES! ***\ I had just gotten a hickie from my ex-boyfriend, and no one knows that we still fool around, least of all my parents! So when I went into his bathroom and saw the 'big red mark' I freaked! So I went online desperately searching for a way to get rid of the ugly thing and I stumbled upon a website that had a solution that WORKS! I just did it like 5 minutes ago and the hickie practically vanished! So I decided to post it here for other girls or guys like me that get carried away, haha. Solution:

Take a small comb with tightly spaced hard plastic bristles and COMB the hickie away! The comb, I guess, get's the circulation going and unclotts the blood in that area. You need to comb in all directions until u can't see it, and trust me, it'll disappear! Good Luck!!!!

-- Anonymous, July 27, 2001


-- Anonymous, July 31, 2001

You can give her a good one in the middle of the forehead with a vacuum cleaner.

-- Anonymous, July 31, 2001

Yo its mad easy to give one. Getting them off is a prob.When you give em just keep sucking and kissing licking the same spot. But make sure you dont do it to hard.+ you gotta make sure that the other person is aight w/ it cause they might cause some prob's w/ you significant other.

-- Anonymous, July 31, 2001

Can anyone confirm Stephanie's "Comb it away" remedy? That sounds painful, and that it will only create MORE red marks!


-- Anonymous, August 02, 2001

hey stephanie is right b/c i had a HUGE ass hickey on my neck from my dumbass friend who was just playing around but i HATE them...so anyways.............i had heard about combing or brushing it with a regular plastic bruch w/ plastic bristles and it went away in 1 day i promise it will work TRUST ME

-- Anonymous, August 08, 2001

Unfortunately, I happen to have an embarassing hickey story. My boyfriend and I work at the same restaurant. It's were we met. So, obviously, everyone's always teasing us about everything we do or say when we're together. Well, one night, about two monthes into our relationship, he gave me a hickey. We both knew that, and talked about, never giving each other a hickey because of what everyone at work would think. But he did it on accident (and no, it didn't hurt at all... I don't know where anyone would ever hear that), and it was kindda funny. Until, that is, the next day at work. I have long haid, and it was easy enough to cover before I put my hair up to fit it into a hair net. I totally freaked. It wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be, though.. the teasing, I mean. I got a few, "What's that on your neck??" and laugh, hahaha, funny. It was funny, though, I mean, might as well laugh, right? No use in crying. The funniest part was when my boyfriend showed up. Hilarious, really. And, anyways, I tried the comb thing, it got lighter, that's all I can say. Not that much, though. Ice doesn't work. I don't know what does.

-- Anonymous, August 12, 2001

I have a hickey :( I went on a date with the guy I'm dating last night, and we ended up going back to his frat, where all of his frat brothers are moving in. We sat down and watched parts of several movies, and then saw someone kising and I said, "I can't do that, because I had the stomach flu the other day, and I don't want you to get sick" and he was like, "Oh well" and tilts my chin up and kisses me. I guess you would just have to be kissed by this guy to understand, but when he starts kissing me I'm helpless. I just want it so bad. So he kisses down my neck and things progress, and anyway, he drops me off at home and I go to bed. Well, when I woke up this morning I came out and sat on the couch by mom and we start talking, and all of the sudden she's like, "Oh my God! Are those hickies?" and I act like she's nuts, and I go to the bathroom and look, and I have 7 hickies. So, she knows, but my dad hasn't found out, so I'm wearing mock turtle necks and wearing my hair down. Story 2: My friend Mallory came to school (yes, school...high school, i'm a senior) yesterday with a giant "J" on her stomach in hickies...the first initial of her boyfriend. Damn.

-- Anonymous, August 18, 2001

How do u get rid of hickeys i need to get rid of mine in the next 24 hours please help

-- Anonymous, August 25, 2001

hey, are hickeys safe to give on boobs?

-- Anonymous, August 31, 2001

ok well i have a very messed up hickey story. me and my boyfriend gave each other some hickeys and he went home and his B**** mother told him he can't come back to my house for a month. ain't that some crap??? but hey we can always make out at his house. and all i can say is it was FUN and worth it!!

-- Anonymous, September 03, 2001

i got 19 hickeys and its summer and im in arizona...ahh!!! everyone is gonna see

-- Anonymous, September 15, 2001

Hey can someone please tell me how to get rid of a hickey, i got it last night, and i need to try a get rid of it before school tomorrow! So if anyone could email me, and help me out that would be awesome!!!


-- Anonymous, September 30, 2001

the other nite i go out to a football party at my college with this girl who i've been messin around with for the past few weeks. she wants to leave but im totally plastered and im doin what i do best when im drunk, talk to people and be the "mayor". so im circulatin at this party and i come across this girl who knows me because she likes my friend. her first comment is damn joe's friends are hot. im thinkin ok....whatever u like my boy and u think im a babe. ko01. so she goes to the bathroom and has me come with her, and she decides to show me her shave job and makes sure i get a quick feel b4 she goes. then we go outside and we start makin out and im in her pants, so we go back to the bathroom. i lock the door and she has her pants off and i guess i took mine off cause next thing i knew she was ridin me givin me the HUGEST hickies in my neck. golf ball in size painful to the touch. so i come back and i call the first girl, she decides to come over. i turn off all the hall lights and i let her in. i fucked her rotten too...and she never noticed because first thing i did when i woke up was put on a hooded sweatshirt and i pulled the hood over my head :-D

-- Anonymous, October 07, 2001

okay. so i have a boyfriend that i have been with for 2 years. things between us suck badly and we basically hate each other, but we still care about each other. So, i have been tapping this guy a year younger than me and everything was good and discreet until last night i took him home with me and he gave me like five hickeys. Now i have to see my boyfriend tonight and i dont know what to do. fucken little boys hey ? how do i get rid of this shit?

-- Anonymous, October 07, 2001

OKay my boyfriend and I were just makin out and he leaves a hickey... my mom is gonna be home in like 5 minutes!!!! Ahh i hope she odnt see it and it is huge and purple! OMG!!! it looks gross (this is my first one and i am only 15) I am going to be dead and u know the bad part?! I have no turtlenecks or scarfs!

I dont know how to get rid of it fast! well i just thought i might post this! Laugh your heads off at me... just go ahead...

OKAY DO IT ALREADY.. I am going to kill him!

-- Anonymous, October 10, 2001

Well i havn't given one and i am 2nite all i am gonna do is take it easy like cos i am very shy and that but, hey she is my GF, she has agrreed to it and that so i am, nice and softly. WISH ME LUCK =D

-- Anonymous, October 13, 2001

Okay, dammit... how do you get these freaking things off? Tried the comb thing but how long are you supposed to sit there and comb? Is there any other way that will make it go away? Makeup doesn't work... already tried that one and I don't have but one turtleneck. Help!

-- Anonymous, October 14, 2001

Well, you could always don a neck brace. They are often available for rent at your local pharmacy.

-- Anonymous, October 15, 2001

if you wanna really get rid of a fukin nasty ass hicky then all you gotta do is take a blow dryer and turn it on high and hold it close to your neck for like 5 ta 10 min then put an ice pack on it for like 20 min and the next mornin it'll be gone!! i promise it worked for me three days ago!!

-- Anonymous, October 30, 2001

Hey Everyone, this is my Hicky story!~

I am 15 and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months and well the other nite he gave me a hicky at tha movies. Well when I came home my mom was like, what is that on your neck and I didn't know anything about it, well I need to know how to accutally get rid of one of these things, b/c everything here DOES NOT work!! and I have to go to school tom, and I am not wearing a turtleneck if I can help it!! PLEASE HELP!

-- Anonymous, November 12, 2001

I had a nice blue hickey on my neck (can you sense the sarcasm?), given to me by my boyfriend, purely by accident( I guess the neck is a very tender spot) It was very gross looking, and made me feel quite dirty, just because it was out in the open for everyone to see. I really wanted to get rid of it, so I rubbed it, over and over, for quite a while with my finger, and noticed it faded from a dark blue bruise color, to a lighter bruise. There was a red mark, but that faded quickly. I needed to get rid of it completely though, so I jumped on the internet in search of some remedies, and came across this web site. I found the stories quite amusing, and the lipstick cap thing to work the best. It has now almost completely faded, which is a very good thing, except now, I won't be able to prove to my boyfriend that I had a hickey.... Oh well I guess i'll just have to get him back when he least expects it!!!

-- Anonymous, November 13, 2001

Thats kinda funny that you guys say the comb does not work.. cuz i just tried it and it works wonders.. i was almost impressed at how it vanished.. (do i sound like an info-mercial?) but it worked for me...

-- Anonymous, November 15, 2001

i just got my first hickey 2 nights ago and its pretty small but very dark and hurts to the touch. the idea of combing it makes me wince...any less painful ideas for ridding myself of this thing, other than not letting someone suck on me for awhile? (note: this hickey is not able to be seen, so covering it up isnt the problem...its more the ugliness factor that bothers me.)

-- Anonymous, November 17, 2001

i have a real embarassing story...last night i threw a party because my mom went away for the weekend. this kid that likes me was there and my friend has like him for awhile but i think she gave up on him...its a long story...so he wanted to talk to me in my room and at first we were talkin...we were talkin about how he likes me and how my friend likes him and stuff...then he told me to sit on his lap...(keep in mind that it was 2 in the am and i had consumed a bottle of kahlua and a couple of smirnoffs) and i was so tired that i just wanted to sleep. casually he got me to lay on the bed and i almost passed out. before i knew it he was kissing my neck and all that other good stuff. the only time i moved was to move my head because i refused to let him kiss me on the lips...(long story) i dont know why people say they hurt...mine stung a little but that was only because he had a tongue ring :) after i went into the bathroom to see the damage and my whole neck was red! i went out into the living room where everyone was and even though it was dark out they could still see them! i have about 9 of them and this morning i went to the mall to buy some turtle necks...in school monday should be interesting...i live in a small town, everyone knows everyones life story. im screwed.

-- Anonymous, November 17, 2001

I just got a huge hickey from my hubby tonight and its dark. And they're always bad after i do CERTAIN things to him!!! But now I need to get rid of it before work. I have waist length hair and even that wont hide it. Im trying the comb thing I hope is works. I didn't even realize it because it feels good while Im getting it. well good luck with any future hickeys!!!

-- Anonymous, December 06, 2001

Well, me and my boyfriend always play around, we live out of town from our parents, but he once gave me one and the next day my parents said they wanted us to come up on that day so I ran to Old Navy and bought a turtleneck, I NEVER wear turtlenecks and my mom was like, "Oh that looks so nice on you, you should wear turtlenecks more often." SO we ended up staying the night and I had to wear the turtleneck the next day also. And just yesterday he gave me another one! My parents called today and decided they are coming down tomorrow, so I am trying all these "solutions" it has faded a whole lot, so I think it will be gone by tomorrow. Talk about good luck. I am not about to go buy another turtleneck. =)

-- Anonymous, December 08, 2001

How to get rid of hickeys?...

-- Anonymous, December 12, 2001

Last night my boyfriend and I were making out and he just started kissing me on my neck. No one has ever kissed me there before and it felt soooo good. I didn't even think of the possibility of getting a hickey. But, now, I have these wonderful purple marks on my neck and I don't own any turtlenecks. I just wore a hooded sweatshirt in hopes that this goes away soon. I had to go to class this morning buying my head in my sweatshirt and my boyfriend thought it was so funny. Ugh, I'm definintely getting him back for this one! ;)

-- Anonymous, December 14, 2001

About 10 minutes ago, I was hanging out in the auditorium At my high school with my friend Nicole, and this guy Ryan th@ we just met. We were playing with those glow-in-the-dark dice that tell you what body part to do what to. (example - kiss / nipples) Anyhow, Nicole has a boyfriend, so she didn't participate as much as she normally would've, so it was just me and Ryan. When we got thrown out of the auditorium, we headed for the bathroom, where Nicole and I discovered a huge hickey right in the centre of my neck. *whoops!* Now I don't know how to get rid of it, or hide it from my mom...

-- Anonymous, December 21, 2001

I am dating 2 guys,one from my county and the other from another county. Well the one thats not from here came to see me last night and he gave this really noticable hickey. The bad part is that tomorrow is a big holiday and I think the one from here is wanting to see me to exchange presents. What am I suppost to do when he sees this giant purple thing on my neck? PLEASE HELP!! Either to get it to go away or just make an excuse!

-- Anonymous, December 24, 2001

Hi, I have been seeing a man secretly for the past few months. Actually he is my ex and we are planning to get back together, but for now we are hiding from certain people. So anyway when we makeout he loves to give hickies. Most of the time he will just start kissing my neck and I don't even realize he has given me a hickey till it's too late. I got so tired of coming home and having to wear scarfs and turtle necks, so I too started searching the net for ways to get rid of hickies. I tried the cold spoon one. You put lotion on the hickey first then get a couple of spoons, put them in the freezer, then get one out and rub it back and forth on the hickey continuously for about 10 min, then switch spoons and keep doing this for around 30-45 min. I really didn't think it'd work, but at the time I was desperate. Well it worked like a charm. I can't believe it, the hickey totally disappeared, and it was a pretty dark one. I haven't yet tried the combing remedy, but I will next time. Just thought some of you might wanna try the spoon thing, but I really recommend that you use lotion with it, it makes it so much easier.

-- Anonymous, January 02, 2002

I think I might have a suggestion for getting rid of hickies. Okay, my story is I definitely can NOT get hickies because I'm a player, playette to be more exact. If one guy were to see a hicky on me I'd be dead. Especially if I've gone a week without seeing him. Hydrocortazone is made to relieve rashes from poison ivy, oak, yada yada yada. The key word is rash. I've tried the cap thing, I've tried the comb thing. But a combo helps too. I actually used an electric toothbrush since I couldn't find a comb one time and that works a little bit. But if you try the comb thing combined with hydrocortazone it works. Well, for me it did. And that's a big deal because I'm strawberry blond, pale skinned. So when I get a hicky, I get a HICKY! So, play on players, hope that helps a lil bit. And hey! all you youngins need to be more careful. Go for below the belt so to speak.

-- Anonymous, January 11, 2002

Hey I found this on some webpage so you guys that wanna know about getting a hickey off can try this....or just use some aloe vera to help...a hickey is a bruise and just like all bruises it needs time to heal. 1 tablespoon tincture of arnica

St. John's Wort flowering tops

witch hazel bark or chamomile flowers

4 drops lavender essential oil

two tablespoons cold water

Soak a washcloth in the liquid, wring it out, and place it directly on your hickey.

-- Anonymous, January 11, 2002

Me and my girlfriend were makin out in my room, we started to get pretty pationet and i started sucking on her neck, she moaned so i took that for a good sighn, she sucked my neck i did hers vice versa and in the morning i had ha huge hickey on my neck, im like 15 and my mom would literally kill me if she found out so i just told her it was my razor, i got a new electric one and some new headphones just for that so ha

-- Anonymous, January 13, 2002

Well, i must say this is a very entertaining subject, and i am currently in the progrss of rubbing my neck down with lotion, and doing the old cold spoon trick, the hickey has faded, and hopefully i dont fall asleep and wake up with a spoon on my neck, my boyfriend standinng over me, and a hickey that didn't come from him! ill try the spoon thing today, and tell wether it works *arent we all just a pretty picture of innocnece :>) I'm sre i'll have this problem again, so i'll try the comb thing in the next instance! If i haven't been put in a bag an thrwon to the bottom of a lake by my boyfriend.

-- Anonymous, January 13, 2002

O my gosh the cold spoon thing better work bc the comb thing hurts like heck.

-- Anonymous, January 13, 2002

My guy is wild and crazy and he likes doing them HARD but i actually like it. He uses his teeth. It's nuts.

-- Anonymous, January 13, 2002

I really don't have a answer, to getting rid of a hickey.....I am in a huge mess myself. I am dating two guys at once eeeekkk!! Last night my "second" boyfriend came to visit me, little did I know he also wanted to suck the hell out of my neck, my friends are telling me he done it on purpose to "mark his territory". So now I'm stuck with this huge ass hickey, I tried the comb thing that really hurts but actually it is working!!! Hopefully it will work miracles....because the weekend is coming up and that is when I spend time with my other boyfriend...so I'm keeping my fingers crossed!!

-- Anonymous, January 17, 2002

oh my gosh, tonight i just got my first hickey and i am so scared that it won't come off. i've tried the comb thing and the ice and the lotion. make up doesn't cover crap. ack!! someone help me!!

-- Anonymous, January 20, 2002

OMG! I got my first one last night too! I am so scared! I don't know how to get it off....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-- Anonymous, January 21, 2002

i got two or three bad ones last night on my neck and i've been combing one for like 15 minutes and it's already gone...so i guess it works...but my neck is all red and sore. oh well the price you pay

-- Anonymous, January 22, 2002

I have about 6 hickeys, three that show, so I tried a bunch of the remedys and I will tell you what worked the best. The combing was phenomonal. It stays red for about 20 minutes after but right away you can barely tell, and if you can....it doesn't look like a hickey at all. It's so minimal you could pass it off as nothing. The visine didn't work at all. I don't know how much you could waste on a hickey, cause it does nothing. Ice....no help. toothpaste left a different kind of red mark and burned a bit.....althoughl; after most of the redness goes away the hickey is less noiticable. But the comb, and then rub witch hazel on it after works like a charm.

-- Anonymous, January 22, 2002

OK, i havent posted long since i had the hickey dellema, but i got rid of it to the point that it could be covered up (i was too tired to keep it up, it probably would hev gone away entirely) i used both the spoon, and thecomb method. * put a few spoons in the freezer, let em get REALLY cold, while u are waiting for that lotion the hell out of your neck,or hickey area, then whip out one of those spoons, and rub it on your neck until it is numbed up pretty well, then use the comb/brush wahichever (i used a brush) It DOES hurt, but using the spoon to numb ur neck makes it tollerable, i never really got any results using just the spoon, so use the spoons to numb your neck, then rip away with the comb or brush until you have to lotion and numb your neck again! *Good luck* *happy neck scratching* :P

-- Anonymous, January 29, 2002

i was at home one nite and my next door person came over and asked me 2 go somewhere with him and his friend i went (they payed my way and took me there and back) well the whole time we were gone we hung out with different people and we got mad at each other he was mad at me cuz i messed up his game i told people his real age and i was mad at him cuz he was hitting on my best friends and any way we came home and he came to my house around 2am and 4 some reason we forgot that we were mad and he gave me a big a$$ hicky well2 to be exact and well my dad saw them and now i am grounded its not so funtelling friends u cant o some where cuz of a hicky i no not so emmbarrasing but i thought i would share my 1st hicky experiment with yah

-- Anonymous, January 29, 2002

My boyfriend gave me a hickey on my cheek last night. It looks like he hit me or something and i need to get rid of it fast so people don't get the wrong idea. I'm trying the comb trick now. Pray that it works!

-- Anonymous, February 01, 2002

k last night i was at the movies with my girlfriend and we gave eachother hickeys. the one i gave her was a monster and her mom saw it. now her mom is gonna check her neck for "marks" every night. im wondering if its okay to give hickeys on boobs. cuz she says it fees good when i lick but i dunno about sucking. anybody know if it'll hurt or anything?

-- Anonymous, February 02, 2002

i have a melon of a hickey covering my whole neck ,from this shy barely says a word guy,he must have been marking his territory because i was talking to some guy all night and went to speak to him,and he bang kissed me and went and did this.even he looked shocked by what he'd done.why do you crazy boys do this???

-- Anonymous, February 03, 2002

while reading theese, i found some quite funny. anywayz..... i was just wondering how to give a hickey to my bf since neither of us has given or recieved one. if u could send me some tips on giving them, that would be great! and i'll keep all the removal methods in mind when my mom finds out if i get one. lol. later :)

-- Anonymous, February 04, 2002

Last night me and my friend took two girls in a closet at a party, and to our surprise they decided to give us hickies so after about an hour me and my friend came out and we each had like 6-7 hickies on our necks. everyone at the party laughed there asses off at us but they were probally just jealous, when i got home my dad didnt seem to care but then my mom came home and went totally ballistic on me and accuses me of having sex, how gay can parents be? btu overall it was a fun night cause the hickies felt great, im not sure if i want to get rid of them cause all of the ways sound painfull!

-- Anonymous, February 10, 2002

OMG....i just got my first hickey from my boyfriend and i'm hecka trippin. if my parents see it they will kill me and not ever let him come over again! if you have ne advice on how to get rid of them fast pease e-mail me...quick! thanx a bunch

-- Anonymous, February 11, 2002


-- Anonymous, February 14, 2002

i dont know if this counts, but tonight i was at a female friends house for single's girls night, since staying home on valentines day sucks so, to make a long story short, i was sitting there and i had a paper cup over my mouth and i sucked the air out of it to make it stick to my face... needless to say, (it wouldnt be a story otherwise) i sucked too hard and ended up with a huge purple mark on my chin... even my parents laughed at me, they said it looked like a hickie, and if it was anywhere else, i'd tell people it was so i wouldnt feel like such a loser but... it would look pretty stupid if i told them a guy had sucked my chin, so... i am out looking for remedies now. wish me luck :(

-- Anonymous, February 15, 2002

i always get hickies on my chest never on my neck

-- Anonymous, February 17, 2002

yea i got one last night from my girlfriend. i was joking around and said i was going to give her one and told her there was a mark. and she just started sucking my neck and now i actually have one. i'm going to try the comb thing. because i don't think my parents will be to pleased. i'm never been more interested in a forum in all my life till this one. oh does that st john wort mix work?

-- Anonymous, February 17, 2002

alright well i do have an embarassing story...today i was with a girl named "jeena" and we me and "jeena" were gettin into the moment and well she started sucking on my neck...i thought nothing of it untill about 2 hours later i look in the mirror and there they are....2 hickys the size and color of mars...now at about 12 oclock at night i have been trying solutions because i have school tommorrow, and well i dont like turtle necks. SO i tried that comb method...its works...that or my neck is turning more red then it is purple, but anyways it seems to be doing the job quite well...only takes about 5 minutes. so while all day i was walking around with my collar on my shirt up i could have used that time hanging out in my family room. but nope my dad would embarass me and my mom would go crazy...

-- Anonymous, February 19, 2002

I've heard somewhere that hickeys can cause cancer. Can anyone confirm this?

-- Anonymous, February 22, 2002

Yea the band-aid thing doesn't work if you have two hickies that are on the same spots of each side of your neck (if that makes any sense). But i should prolly get rid of mine becuase if anyone found out i'd be screwwed. Not to mention if my mom found out, oh no, better find a quick remedy.

-- Anonymous, February 23, 2002

Last night my girlfriend and I were at a party (I'm only 16) and we were doin our own thing in a seperate room... anyways, i get home the next morning and I'm layin in bed, my mom walks in and says "Oh my god you have a rash, wait no, THATS A HICKEY" I'm like oh shit cause I remember how my GF was sucking a little bit, but not hard or long at all. So my mom knew but just told me she had them all the time when she was my age... later on that night I was at some dinner thing with my dad, and he was like HOLY SHIT WHY DO YOU HAVE A HICKEY? My uncle was there and said "well did you atleast get some?" haha kinda funny, but it's not bad, I'm suprised they noticed! to make a long story short, they wern't pissed, but I want to get rid of it... i tried the comb and hot washcloth then cold spoons and ice, and rubbing it, it looks a little better, but it wasn't incredibly bad to begin with so I'm not sure. Everyone else says it helps for bad ones, and it's worth a try! P.S. All of you who say you want hickey's are only asking for trouble and paranoia!

-- Anonymous, February 24, 2002

At the sea, I can see it callin my name. Can you feel the magic from it too? Flying free, reaching up and touching th moon, We can make it if we try. You and me, we'll climb that mountainside. There's nothing standing in our way. There's a land not far away, where everything is kind, a place they call Utopia, a place within the mind, and the road now it ain't easy, and it might be hard to find, but everyone can get there, if they just get up and try, now fly with me. Through the trees, now we will find that rainbow, and bathe ourselves in rain of gold, like a bumblebee, polinating all the flowers, with the seeds we have sown, won't you follow me? Satisfaction comes with time, you've got to do what makes you happy.

-- Anonymous, February 25, 2002

i have a hickey, need to get rid of it fast.. please respond in this forum with all solutions.. wats the comb thing about, toothpaste, wat works??

-- Anonymous, February 25, 2002

well i somehow gave myself a whole damn chin hickey, i was sucking the air out of a glass and then when i unsucked my face from the glass my whole chin was dark purple, boy i sure hope that damn comb thing works, b/c i tried it a few minutes ago and it hasnt worked yet.CRAP!!!!!

-- Anonymous, February 27, 2002

OMG! last night my b/f came over when my mom was out of town. My grandma is pretty incompitant so i made sure that she at least okayed it. My mom still had said "nobody over while im gone". WOOPSY! lets just say that things led to more things and i have a massive hickey on my neck. Its not MY COLOR! AAAH! so now what? my mom will be hom in a few hours and i get to wear turtle necks for the rest of my life? :( any other ways besides the comb? how long do i have to comb the damn thing? ugh!

-- Anonymous, March 03, 2002

ok i really need to get rid of my hickey like now time!!! i have no idea what to do, what should i do?

-- Anonymous, March 03, 2002

OK, I have about 15 hickeys right now (it's a long story). I tried the comb thing... it does work. First of all, it gets rid of less severe hickeys. On the really bad ones, it doesn't get rid of them completely, but they do look more like normal bruises, rather than very obviously being hickeys. One tip though: try pushing the comb over your skin rather than pulling it. It works better and hurts less. Good luck!

-- Anonymous, March 03, 2002

My boyfriend gave me a hickey and I really don't want my mom to see so how do you get rid of them?

-- Anonymous, March 04, 2002

Man, all this talking about hickies is making me want one. I can't wait for my boyfriend to come over here so he can nibble me a little. I don't know about the cancer thing if he sucks your breasts, but I know it feels good as hell!

-- Anonymous, March 16, 2002

hickeys don't cause cancer... wow people, it's a bruise!!!

-- Anonymous, March 17, 2002

me and my b\f was playin around and he was suckin on my ear and once he pulled away he was like oh sh*t! i was like what? what's wrong? i ran to the bathroom and looked in the morrior and there i saw that my entire earlob was purple. i was p*ssed

-- Anonymous, March 19, 2002

Hey yo, 'sup! I just got home about an hour ago with this massive hickey from my boyfriend which I totally hafta hide cuz 1. my 'rents would kill me & 2. we work at the same place (he's my boss) and everyone would give me such a hard time! Anyways, I've been trying different things and one thing I can reccomend as a last resort is to use a yellow concealer. Unlike most make-up the yellow counteracts the purple and neutralizes it making it much easier to hide. If your hickey is more red then use a green concealer. Physician's Formula brand is at CVS etc and works great. But like I said, that's only if nothing else works and you really hafta hide it. I'm in the process of trying the comb trick and so far it seems to do at least a tiny bit of good. I did it for about 10 minutes then stopped and put on a little lotion and then just started back. I take a break when it gets too red cuz I really really don't wanna accidentally just make it redder. If anything works for sure I'll post it. Ciao!

-- Anonymous, March 19, 2002

Well.. tonight I got a lot of hickeys, not only on my neck, but one on my nipple. It feels amazing to have a guy kiss my breasts.. but I didn't expect a hickey there cuz i never got one there. Both sides of my neck are soooo covered. I tried all those remedies.. none of them worked.. Good thing that at work tomorrow, I am allowed to wear my hair down (I work at a department store). This whole thing is complicated, because I'm dating this guy but we don't see each other a whole lot.. so I didn't mean to, but made out with this guy. I just gotta avoid the guy until they go away.. which thankfully gymnastic team tryouts are all next week, so I can avoid the poor guy... Too many boys, so little time.. What's a girl to do?? :D

-- Anonymous, March 20, 2002

I think my story is worse than all of yours. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years-who is 14 years older than me. We broke up because he cheated on me alot-including my sister. Any way to make a long story short-we broke up and I started dating this great guy that actually started talking to me before my last boyfriend and I had gotten together. Me and my current guy remained friends-just friends- through out my last relationship. Well my x-boyfriend has a 22 years old son--I by the way am 28-- his 22 year old son stopped by last night we had a couple of drinks and well nothing like a women scorned- but he left proof--3 hugh hickeys high up on my neck. I really dont want to lose the guy Im currently seeing because I had a stupid but convenient moment to get even with an x. So Iam trying the comb and lotion remedies and pray that it works because I see the new guy tomorrow. Thanks for all the suggestions. And good luck to all of you with the same problem : 0)

-- Anonymous, March 21, 2002

Hey so I came home tonight after my first "real date" and well had about 4 huge hickeys on my neck so I started searching the internet and tried frezzing it and using toothpaste and both of them dulled the hickey but didn't vanish it!! so the I tried combing it whitch again dulled it but didn't vanish it so I got creativy and used clearasil and a toothbrush and I used brushed in the clearasil in circular motions!! the toothbrush didn't hurt as bad as the comb and it worked preety well I also cut the tip off an advil gel cap and rubbed it on the affected area whitch took some redness away!! So hopefully I will be all better to go on my fmaily vactaion tommarow!!!

-- Anonymous, March 23, 2002

Last night I was with my best friend and our boyfriends and I was in the back of her car w/him at the train station waiting for their train home and he gave me 5 hickeys on my chest. Well im 15 and a figure skater and next week we have competition in another state which means hotel which mean pool which means bathing suit, well i need to know how to get them off fast so e-mail me PLEASE

-- Anonymous, March 30, 2002

wow...i didn't know peeps were trippn off hickies like me. i jus got mines last nite n it sucks like a bitch! i have to walk around with this crap on my neck! it's so embrassin! anyways, that comb method sounds hella painful! but i think ill give it a try. my homegurl told me that whol lipstick cap stuff but it makes my neck so red. and im so freaken light it's hard not to tell. Damn! this stuff better work! i got work tomorrow morning! dun want no one gettin on my ass about it...Well peeps, thanks for the advise, hopin it'll work. later.

-- Anonymous, March 31, 2002

Last night my fiance gave me a hickey on the right side of my cheek, on my FACE that is really noticeable. I didn't know you can get hickies on your face. I need to get it off some kind of way, I work with kids and in the mall, and I go to college full time. People are always looking at me I need to get this sucker off. Help

-- Anonymous, April 02, 2002

Last night my fiance gave me a hickey on the right side of my cheek, on my FACE that is really noticeable. I didn't know you can get hickies on your face. I need to get it off some kind of way, I work with kids and in the mall, and I go to college full time. People are always looking at me I need to get this sucker off. Help for future hickies!

-- Anonymous, April 02, 2002

This is my story! Alright i was just with this girl for a few hours and i told her that i AM one of the weirdos who are into the whole pain/pleasure deal.(she got a little freaked out at first but then played along) So she proceeds to play Bram Stoker's Dracula on my neck and lo and behold it looks like someone let loose a bunch of old women with no teeth and had them try and gum me to to death...not a pretty sight...it's all sorts of freakin colors...not to mention the "gun shot wound" hicky i have on my shoulder...yes my shoulder...now like the paranoid stupid ass that i am, I scurry to my computer in hopes of finding a cure...AND I DID!!!!! The comb trick works in a matter of MINUTES!!! However, in my case...the bite marks have to fade before tomorrow or my whole family interrogates me...wish me luck troopers! And happy hickeys to all and to all a good night!!! HO HO HO!!!

-- Anonymous, April 02, 2002

I'm confirming Stephanie's "comb it away" method!! I JUST did that and it worked!! It's still there a LITTLE bit but nothing that can't be covered with makeup now....THANK YOU for that!!

-- Anonymous, April 02, 2002

The funny thing about the cancer thing is that is what my mother told me about 25 years ago when I got one from my boyfriend (he is my husband now) Some things just never change.

-- Anonymous, April 02, 2002

Well, my girlfriend usually gives me hickies in my chest, but one day, she decided she wanted to give me one on my neck it was a monster. I tried the visene, but it onlly mad it lighten up a little bit. What worked for me was do the comb thing, I did it with a toothbrush ( one that wonn't be used again). After I did that, it was still noticceable. I put a warm washcloth over it. I kept doing it in intervals, the toothbrush, and then the wwaarm washcloth. When I was dane, me neck hurt a llittle bit, but you could still see it. The only thing was the Hickey was remarkably lighter. I put on a little bit of Coverup, and that took care of the problem real fast. My parents didn't notice anything at all

-- Anonymous, April 03, 2002

My boyfriend has given me hickies before... but this time theres a really bad one. Its icky looking. I'm going to try *all* of those remedies and post back

-- Anonymous, April 04, 2002

One more thing on Hickies. If you plan to get them, make sure it is where no one can see them. It is fun, needless to say, to get them on my neck, but it is such a bitch to get rid of them. Get them somewhere like your chest, and then you won't have to worry about getting rid of it anymore

-- Anonymous, April 04, 2002

Last night i was at this party, some girl i made out with gave me a giant hickey, but the worst part is that today is prom night at my school. that's litteraly fuckt up right. toothpaste doesn't work, at least not quick enough, i'm having some spoons in the freezer right now, and i seriously hope it will work. well that's all and remember to do everything to avoid getting a hickey before a big day.

-- Anonymous, April 06, 2002


-- Anonymous, April 07, 2002

at least some people can get one. my bf is too scared to.

-- Anonymous, April 09, 2002

My g/f is sitting behind me and ribbing my nuts, but its that time of the month. We want to fuck. What should we do?

-- Anonymous, April 09, 2002

jump in the shower and then use the comb it really works

-- Anonymous, April 12, 2002

I got a big hickey last night on my neck from this guy. I just used the comb trick and yeah it hurts but it works like a charm. I can't let my parents see that--how embarassing! Makes me feel like a slut- ola.

-- Anonymous, April 13, 2002

Hmm me and my boyfriend like to act immature and joke around and stuff so we decided to give each other hickeys one night. We thought it was funny we made it a contest... sorta. We had fun laughing about it.

-- Anonymous, April 13, 2002

I am 27, isn't that a little too old to be getting hickies??? Anyways I have the kind of job that requires my hair to be up. Great so I have less than 24 hours until I go to work and I am trying everything that has been suggested hoping and praying that one of the "cures" will work. I tried the comb thing and now I just have a really red neck. Hopefully it will fade within the next 15 minutes. You know getting your neck sucked on does feel great-it is a total turn-on for me, there's a certain place on each side of my neck that when gently bitten and sucked, I swear to god, I can orgasm. So it isn't really like i am trying to complain, it's just that I do think guys are "Marking their territory", you see I got this from my ex (whoever said it's possible to remain friends with their ex was a total liar), as soon as I realized what he did, I held him down and gave him one too... Two can play at that game baby....

ps The comb thing, yeah well it WORKED!!!!!

-- Anonymous, April 14, 2002

I just have a few things to say...I HATE HICKEYS BUT LOVE THEM if that makes any sense at all. One Friday night when my bf climbed into my window like he does usually every night, I noticed he has a lot of hickeys on his neck and I only gave him about half of them. I was so shocked at seeing this I told him I had to take a shower because I just got back from the gym. After I got out of the shower I didn't put any make-up or anything and I calmly walked into my room. Now he's a very passionate kind of person and he was kissing me and stuff when he noticed alot of hickeys on my back, neck, stomach, and legs. He freaked out and threatened to dump me. I simply pointed out his hickeys, and we both agreed that we wouldn't give each other any more hickeys so we could see if we were both cheating on each other or if we actually did give each other the hickeys (the last time we saw each other we were both drunk as hell so we might not remember giving each other hickeys, and I know for a fact I didn't cheat on him but I don't remember where I got the hickeys...so probably him...but I don't know about his). Well...now me and my friend were both playing around and not paying attention (I was drunk again but I still remember what happened) he started to kiss my neck, and I just "forgot" that I had a bf. He just gave me 6 hickeys on my neck and I'm going to see Eric (my bf) tomorrow and I don't know what to do. I've tried everything I could to make them go away but NOTHING works. The hickeys I got were very painful and really dark, dark purple. I don't know what to do, so I think Eric's probably gonna dump me. Damn.... (Note: Me and my sister aren't close at all and I'm not about to tell her about my personal life, and she's not supposed to know that I know how to give hickeys bcuz she'll rat me out to my parents just because she can so can someobody please email her and shut up. We use the same email, but just write "Jamie" in the subject bar instead of the subject.)

Much Luv~!~!~! Heather(15) and Jamie(19)

-- Anonymous, April 16, 2002

Well...I said I was gonna post Jamiez question 4 her somewhere so here it is. She doesn't read this page (thank God) so somebody email her. Here's her question... Can somebody please give me a detailed description on how to give a really good hickey. I've tried and I just don't know what I'm doing, and I'm dating and older guy now so I need to know. If you can email me I'd be very thankful. Jamie AKA CareBear

-- Anonymous, April 16, 2002

When i was in high school...my girlfriend at the time thought it would be a good idea to suck on my cheek (the one on my face, you perverts) for about five seconds. She totally caught me off guard, and by the time she was done, there was a nice sized hicky on my face!!! There was definitely no way to hide that one....so we said that i was running around the room and i slipped and hit my face on the corner of this "pointy" chair. That was the lamest story that i ever heard...but our families believed us...i guess.

-- Anonymous, April 16, 2002

If you take a small comb and comb the dawn thing away......it really does work, trust me.......good luck

-- Anonymous, April 19, 2002

Last night I was at my boyfriend's house and I bit his neck really hard. He comes over this morning with 2 huge hickeys! Holy crap! So I'm on the internet looking for ways to conceal it so he wont have to wear his high collared jacket for a week. He goes back to work in 2 days so it better be gone! We did the comb thing and he says it really hurts. At first it just made the area really red. But it's been 15 minutes and he says its getting smaller. HINT: Use LOTS and LOTS of lotion. The rubbing begins to burn after a while!

Good Luck! -Stephanie & Tom

-- Anonymous, April 20, 2002

Hey!! Getting drunk and getting a hickey......is certainly not the best of ideas i've had in a long time!!!! Then to top it all of i arrive at work and have to work with theguy how decided to plant a reminder of the night before on my neck!!! So today is gunna be spent trying to find remedies to get rid of the Bastard (no not the fella) but the HICKEY!!!!

-- Anonymous, April 21, 2002

OMG I have been stressing all over the place all day trying everyone's dumb little rememdies when all I had to do in the first place was use the comb. I didn't try it for a long time cuz it sounded kind of ridiculous but it REALLY works.

-- Anonymous, April 21, 2002

OK, this page saved my skin. . . although I had to avoid my beautiful angel this afternoon. Used an old toothbrush with aloe vera gel. Rubbed/brushed my neck twice with the toothbrush for about 5 minutes each time, massaged the hickey somewhat. By 5pm (about 16 hours after the I got the hickey) it was just a red mark, still noticeable, but very much reduced. Then we took our weekly sauna & steam. 2 hours of sweating, and I took about 250mg of niacin (a B vitamin), which flushes your skin. Itches a helluva lot and makes you really red all over, but it's a good toxic flush for your skin anyway and you'll feel great afterward. Anyway, the hickey is barely a shadow on my skin now, no one would ever be able to spot it.

-- Anonymous, April 22, 2002

Me and my girl are serfin' the web to try to find out how to cover up hickies. This was no help, but my girl thought it was real funny....which does not help my situation tommorrow when I must give away a Methodist Scholarship at my college. She is Southern Baptist and does not understand the strain us UMs put on ourselves to stay in grace. Anyway.....love always Scared Nursing Student

-- Anonymous, April 22, 2002

hehee my story happened when i was 13 and going out with my boyfriend of 5 months who was also 13. (we're now 14 and we've been going out for 1 year and 3 months) i remember when we went out i was so excited to finally be able to hold him and kiss him because at our school you're not allowed to touch the opposite sex. so we went into the movie theater and started to go at it. we had talked about giving hickeys and had decided we were ready for it. two hours later, i walked out of the movie theater and went to the bathroom. i walk out of the stall where one of my friends was washing her hands. she just looked at me kind of strangely and said "what's that on your neck??". I'm just like "what??" and when i look in the mirror, i am met by 4 gigantic hickeys covering my neck. one of them was purple. my friend says "are those hickeys??" i stayed over my friend's house that night. i have a weird skin condition, so when my mother went postal, i told her that my friend had buckwheat pillows and they gave me a rash. they believed it, but everyone at school knew the truth :)

-- Anonymous, April 27, 2002

is there ne way to get rid of hickeys fast?

-- Anonymous, May 04, 2002

combing works the best, and ive had luck twisting the back of a lipstick cap over the maked area, too. it also helps to take a hot shower and rub the area with soap, but it will only helps fade it. but it helps if you do a combo of it all. little red marks can be passed off as 'someone pinched me' or a lil rash. good luck getting them off!!

-- Anonymous, May 10, 2002

I have gotten three AWFUL hickeys tonite from a guy I just met. Im going to try the comb/lipstick cap combo - will follow up shortly with results.

-- Anonymous, May 12, 2002


For real, I just got a hickey about an hour or so ago and it's almost gone. I was pissed as hell cause I'm way too old to have a hickey and I do have a professional job to go to so, not a good idea. It was an accident though so I came upon this website....COMB DID THE TRICK. Although I did it several times over the past hour or so, stopping when it hurt and now I'm just rubbing it and that works too when the comb becomes unbearable (or maybe just rubbing it a lot works too), but it's almost gone. I think the rubbing has something to to with circulating the blood...Anyways, it does work...

-- Anonymous, May 18, 2002

Do anyone know how to get a hickey out?

-- Anonymous, May 25, 2002

The best thing to do is brush it with a combe. it workes great i had a huge hickey from my boy friend 3 of them and well it worked but the next day it hurt so bad!! you have 2 go threw the pain. ps hickeys feel GREAT.. but dont get them there a pain to get rid of

-- Anonymous, May 26, 2002

ok, wut would u say the best way is to get rid of a hickey bc the brush things is so painful after words .. it hurts alot now !

-- Anonymous, May 26, 2002

hey umm what r yall talking bout the lipstick cap thing???????????????

-- Anonymous, May 27, 2002

*ANOTHER ANSWER TO GETTING RID OF HICKIES!!!* haha, its so funny, some of these stories, how some people get these things...especially me. But anyways, theres a better way than the stupid spoon thing (which doesnt even really work), but kinda hurts like the brush thing. **Take the cap of a lipstick, you know like the one your moms have, and put it on your hickie and twist it around in circles, both ways. It doesnt really matter which end you use. It fades them really fast, but watch out!, cause after a while it starts to hurt. My sugesstion, (cause i just did this to get rid of one about 10 mintues ago) is to to do cap solution, and then wait a few, and brush the rest of it away. No one needs to confirm this solution...i've already confirmed it myself. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE....ITS REALLY WORKS!

-- Anonymous, May 27, 2002

Ok, My girlferiend has been givin me hickies for a while, and i really want to give her one - to pay her back, muu haa...! but i cant generate the suction!

Anyone give me technique tips? please guys,. she so deserves this!


-- Anonymous, May 28, 2002

alright about that cap and brush thing...now do u just sit there and scratch at it or what?

-- Anonymous, May 28, 2002

just get really close to your gf and push a little and you should be close enough to get the suction going if that doesnt work, just use a vacum cleaner!!! j/k GOOD LUCK!!!!

-- Anonymous, June 04, 2002

ok i tried the ice the comb the lotion the spoon everything and nothing worked i really need this to go away my mom is gonna kick my ass

-- Anonymous, June 04, 2002

Okay, yesterday I was hanging out with 3 friends, Amber, Trevin, and Sean. Well Amber and Trevin left Sean and me alone in Trevin's room. Sean and I started snuggling and one thing lead to another (clothes stayed on though...go me) and i ended up with 2 hickies. One was the size of a baseball, and one was and still is the size of a golfball. Anyways, I was mortified because I had to meet my mom in like 45 minutes, well um, needless to say I didn't know what to do so I used some of Amber's make-up and borrowed her collar. (I can't exactly cover them up with my hair, it's too short) Well I meet my mom and she sees them. After our meeting I go home and grab some ice and iced my neck down for like 4 or 5 hours. I through some sppons in the freezer and got some lotion and tried the lipstick cap thing. I did the lipstick thing for a little while. After they faded a little, I jumped in the shower and scrubbed my neck with an exfoliater and a nail brush, that hurt like a son-of-a-bitch. Well, aftrer i finished showering i did the spoon thing, then rubbed some toothpaste on it and went to bed. In the morning (this morning), i washed the toothpaste off and they went from purple to pink. Well then I did the spooon thing again and iced em and then put a heating pad on em. They're not gone, but i can cover them with make-up. Go me!! And my mom won't stop teasing me about them, grrr. Well I'll post back later when they disappear

-- Anonymous, June 04, 2002

Well, I just got my first hickey ever. I wasn't expecting it at all. My boyfriend just recently got into the biting thing and I really like it. I don't like the hickeys on my jawline and my neck though. I'm trying all of these solutions and it seems like it has got down a bit. I'm greatful for that. Although I am in college and I don't have to listen to my mother or anyone, I don't really want my parents to see it. Besides I have to subsitute teach tomorrow and I don't think that a Hickey on my jawline is a good example.

-- Anonymous, June 09, 2002

Once in grade 9 I think it was I told my mom I was going to a friends house (a male friend), of course I really went to my girl-friends. Long story short, I got a huge hicky on my neck. When I returned home my mother instantly presumed I had got it from my male friend. So I was in an interusting position, continue the lie and say "Yup, I'm gay." or tell her the whole truth.

-- Anonymous, June 10, 2002

**REMEDY** ok, here's my little story, I fool around with my ex occasionally and yesterday he gave me a hickey. I forgot all about it until my mom asked me this morning if it's a hickey, I just told her it's impossible because we didn't do anything (I don't think she bought it). But after reading all about the different methods, I tried the comb method and it works!! It's all red around it now but I can tell the hickey itself is a lot better than it was. I didn't even use a real comb, I used one of the little eyelash combs. It started to hurt so I stopped and then in between I rubbed lotion on it. I'm gonna keep doing it occasionally until it's gone. Thanks everybody for your help.

-- Anonymous, June 13, 2002

OMG! My 31 y/o B/F gave me the giantist hickey in the world last night and none of the comb-over techniques are working and it sure is red and I need to know if one of you girls can help me cuz I'm wickit worried.

-- Anonymous, June 15, 2002

Man, gotta love gettin drunk.. but the stupid things you do when ya get drunk... damn. Well, I've been hanging out with friends I've met through my Ex, but me and my ex don't speak to each other anymore, so I'm never around these guys when he's there. Well, I was hanging out with them last nite, and all but one went home and we started making out, and I love when guys kiss and suck on my neck.. and he did, but not to the point where it hurt at all, so I didn't think anything about it. Well, I go to work today and one of my customers pointed out the hicky on my neck, that I had no clue was there. WOOOOO! The thing is, me and the guy that I was messing around with don't want any of the other people to know, because then it will get back to my ex, and blahblahblah... and I'm suppose to be hanging out with them again today and need this thing offa my neck. So while I was reading the stories in here, I was trying the different remedies, the lipstick worked really well, and then I did the comb thing to finish it off. Now I have to find someway to get the redness down a bit =) Maybe if I jump in the shower =) Well, I'ma go try that...

-- Anonymous, June 18, 2002

okay my man always gives me hickeys and he wants one back. i really dont wanna seem like i dont know what i'm doing so can someone get back to me on how to give him one that will be sensual and he will enjoy. thanks.

-- Anonymous, June 21, 2002

Well...my remedy is an old old remedy i got from my grandfather when i was 14 and got my first hickey, and it may sound crazy but it works like a charm, take a small squeeze of toothpaste and mix in a small squirt of urine, thats right PEE, into a small cup, then mix it up real good, and use either an old toothbrush or THE TOOTHBRUSH OF SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE TO MUCH, i used my older brothers...and rub the solution on your neck, 15 minutes and its GONE COMPLETELY, think is has something to do with the Uric Acid in the urine! GOOD LUCK!!

-- Anonymous, June 23, 2002

id like to keep the pee off my neck, no good with the ladies if you smell like a urinal

-- Anonymous, June 25, 2002

Yeah...Boooooo cuz I have my first hickeys...2 of them...on my neck. And I'm a moron because I shouldn't have let it happen in the first place...anyway it really needs to go away fast before my friends find it because I made a stupid mistake and they just don't need to know about it. So I've been combing for like 20 minutes...and I put hydrocortisone cream on it...and I iced it. My mom keeps teasing me! At least shes cool about it though (I love my mommy!) I just put some spoons in the freezer so I'll try those too...tried the lipstick cap but nothing happened...I think its lightened up a little from the comb, but I'm soooo pale that its obvious no matter what. Help!

-- Anonymous, June 28, 2002

AHHHHHHH, I had my new boyfriend over and he gave me a hickey! I didn't notice untell my mom pointed it out. She was cool with it but I know that if my dad see's it tomorrow, I'm dead!! grrrrr -deadgirlwalking

-- Anonymous, July 03, 2002

Okay! Listen up.. and listen good.... I'ma 2-timer... AND.. see...here goes..I have b/f... but I have my playa ways... and I can't stand to stay with one guy for a long time...I mean.. I'll stay with him.. but I can't STAY with JUST him.. you know lol anyways... there's this guy.. that I cheat with on ALL my boyfriends.. and last nite..well you know what happens when ur in a guys room.. on the bed.. with no clothes right?? ya'll know? and so blah blah blah.. nite is over.. and I come home to look in the mirror.. to find a black and purple hicky the size of 2 quarters in diameter...and well.. you know how that goes... and see there's this problem.. I've tried everything in the book.. okay well not EVERYTHING.. but alot of it... and umm I've tried the comb thing...FUCKIN SHIT...that hurts.. and my neck is still red.. I combed it for 20 mins... looks like its going away... then I used lotion and frozen spoons... umm that helped a lil bit.. I used a hair dryer to my neck for 5 mins...ouchie that burnt... hmmm I tried the lipstick cap..that seemed to work a lil.. but you know what after all that shit.. so anyways back to what I was saying.. My 2 friends are over here tryin to get rid of this rat bastard.. but well it looks like its going away... hmm but what I'm tryin to get at... well.. I need some more tips... cuz my boyfriend is comin to see me on thursday and today is monday.. wait no.. is it tuesday?? er maybe its sunday.. oh well but thats not the point.. actually it is.. okay anyhoo in 3 days my b/f is comin to see me.. and HEY WAIT that must make it monday if its in 3 days.. right.. ya thats what I thought.. anyhoo... and I need these sucka's gone...LITERALLY gone... anyhoo... and so umm ya.. to make this long story short...I have hicky's and I need em gone NOW cuz they arn't from my boyfriend...and if he found out.. I'd be fucked.. LITERALLY by the other guy.. so ya.. any ideas??? Thanx

-- Anonymous, July 08, 2002

Here's how to get rid of one and it almost ALWAYS works: use the backside of a comb and starting at the center of the hickey, comb outward so that you evenly distribute the blood cells which form the hickey. Work all around it until it has faded away. There may be a little bit of redness remaining, so you can try the cold spoon or just use concealer to mask it.

-- Anonymous, July 12, 2002

i just wanted to confirm the comb trick for anyone who's in the same position i was an hour ago. i tried fuggin EVERYTHING and then FINALLY tried the comb trick at the end (cause it sounded ridiculous) and it works amazingly well. i lubed that sucker up hardcore with aloe vera then went at it in a circular motion with a toothbruth for 15 min, then put a hot washcloth on for 10 min. i repeated the process like 3 times. my neck was red as hell but the little bastard disappeared. i just iced it down for 15 min. then jumped in a hot shower for about 15 min. BAM! good as new! i'm not BS'in you guys. this shit REALLY works if you can put up with the pain. good luck players. don't get busted. peace.

-- Anonymous, July 18, 2002

i need help iv bin with this lass for just ova 3 months now and she made a comment the other night about not havin a hicki for agaes. i take this is a hint but i dont know how to give someone a hicki can u help me and explain.


-- Anonymous, July 30, 2002

This is now my favorite webpage ever. I had a huge redish-purple hicky, so I came to this site looking for a remedy. I almost laughed it off cause the remedies sounded ridiculous. But I was very desperate and tried the MIRACLE COMBING. I combed the hicky on and off for an hour. You don't have to press real hard. I could see some difference, but when i woke up the next morning it was almost completely gone. It went from huge dark red-purple hicky to almost nothing. When ppl say it just takes time, that is BS. The combing definitely works.

-- Anonymous, August 02, 2002

Man...I couldn't believe any of these methods until I tried the comb method. I guess different remedies work for different ppl. Like i always said different strokes for different folks!!! Ya heard..thanks alot for the help...PEACE

-- Anonymous, August 04, 2002

Yikes! Some of the storys are funny! But I sadly related to a lot of you. Anyway I have 2 horrible hickys on me from my ex right now and I tried the cold spoon thing and it did NOT work, so I finally resorted to the brush b/c I had to standup the guy I am seeing last night and couldn't do that again tonight. It sounded painful but it really doesn't hurt and THEY ARE FINALLY GOING AWAY. now if I could get my ex to do the same....

-- Anonymous, August 05, 2002


first of all... im 17 years old... i live with my boyfriend... so i guess you can already say im in the wrong place... anyway... he has lots of female friends and 1 guy friend... and i have lots of male friends and 1 girl friend... so... we both have a lot to say about each other... anyway... last night one of my guy friends that i haven't seen since we graduated was kickin' it with all my other guy friends... so i told my boyfriend that i'll be gone a hour and to meet me at the corner at 11 so i wouldn't have to walk home alone... he said to call first after a small argument...(he doesn't like 1 of my friends) anyway... i walked around the corner and every one was sitting outside talking... which is what we always do... this one good friend of mine...(lets just call him bob) Bob looked like he could be kind of high... which is hard to tell in the first place... and bob can be an ass when he's high... anyway... we live in vegas and even at night it's like 98 degrees... so we all went in the house... i sat on the couch and everyone was sitting around talking... i must have said the wrong thing to bob and he got mad... right before he left to go to some girls house with our other friend... he said," you are now offically f#*@ed...!!!" he sucked on my neck playfully at first but for about 5 seconds... ( im a light skinned girl with very sensitive skin) (i'll turn red if you pinch me) anyway... he said ... go home in a hour and show him that... He left and after that i was ready to go home... all my other friends said no cause they were gonna help me try to make it go away so my boyfriend wouldn't trip out...after about 45min of ice,spoons, toothpaste, and rubbing i was out of options... so then we all were thinking of things to tell him...after 20min of that i said i would just tell him the truth... so i called him... he was pissed... he said he had been waiting for me at the corner for 30mins...i told him i was on my way... when i got there i made sure we weren't under the street light.... i huged him for a long time and told him i had something to tell him... so i told him and he told me to get the f_*k away from him... i walked to the house after he went in... and he was throwing all of my stuff into the hallway and told me i had to leave... since then we made up and he has forgiven me... but everytime he looks at my neck he curses under his breath... he says it's okay... but i know as soon as his mother sees it...it won't be okay... i don't want her to think that im nasty... or cheating on her son... so i have to get rid if it... not to mention the 2 interviews i had to cancel today... and my visit with my mom.... but i know they can last for up to a week... and friday im going to get my hair cut... my hair is so long now... that everyone wants me to take pictures with my boyfriend... our pictures are right after my hair... and he said he will not take a picture with me with this purple spot on my neck.... i've never had a hickey on my neck... and i don't like it... plus now everyone thinks im sleezy... but i didn't do anything.... someone please help me... and tell me how i can get it to go away...

-- Anonymous, August 13, 2002

Last night I was hanging out with this guy I really like on the beach and we were just kissing and having fun and then he started to suck on my neck. And i'd never gotten a hickie before so I didn't know how long it would take for it to appear.. I tried to kind of push him off a little so I could kiss his lips but he didn't get it.. But I figured the short while he was sucking my neck, that it didn't do anything. I get home and there is a luvly hickie on my neck. My parents will shoot me if they see.. I tried putting toothpaste on it..And now i'm trying brushing it with a toothbrush..Then the spoon thing.. Err just go away u darn hickie! Senior pics are sooo soon! Any other ideas write back :)

-- Anonymous, August 20, 2002

eat ass shit

-- Anonymous, August 20, 2002

ive gotten my first hickie last night and i was wondering what teh spoon thing is, or what the best way to get rid of it is

-- Anonymous, August 24, 2002

The comb thing really works....thanks Steph. :)

-- Anonymous, August 25, 2002

So I finally got to hook up with this guy last night, and it was amazing, you know how that it is when everything is right. So I knew he was sucking on my neck a bit, but I usually don't bruise too easily and didn't think anything of it... Famous last words, I roll out of bed this morning with an adorable pair of hickies, one on each side of my neck.. No problem, they're pretty far back and low, so at work today my shirt collar and mid length hair covered them. Until I was sitting with my supervisor, and as he asked how my weekend was, me being an idiot stretched and lifted my hair.. to which he immediately answered his own question, "well, guess SOMEONE'S weekend was good!" I work with 2 other girls and roughly 30 guys, so u can imagine the watercooler discussions today! Anyways, there really is NO way to get rid of them - they're bruises like any other and they need to fade with time. When you're with the person who gave em to ya, wear em proud, he usually finds em pretty sexy.. otherwise - YELLOW-BASED CONCEALER. Dab that on, like a physicians formula type(really thick with good coverage), follow with your usual shade of coverup/concealer, and follow with powder.. make sure to blend with your skintone, and conceal a slightly larger area - spot covering just makes it more obvious! Take a big makeup brush and smooth around the whole neck area, a bronzer works well here too as the hickey can fade to a yellowish brown.

-- Anonymous, September 09, 2002

Well I got ready to go to the Dells for a week this summer and me and my boyfriend were playing around in my aunties room and I knew he was going to give me a couple but what I didn't realize is how big and purple they were going to look. When he leaves I go in the room with my little sisters and cousins and I start changing my clothes and and when they saw the hickeys they screamed like something was wrong and when I turned to look in the mirror I was in complete awe. When they started counting and made it to 9 I was so embrassed but considering they came from the man I love it didn't make it as bad so i wore the ones I could proudly.

-- Anonymous, September 12, 2002

Yes! I'm going through my embarrassing hickey story as we speak! My father's going to kill me!!!! AAH!!!!!!!!

-- Anonymous, September 15, 2002

**REMEDY** Wow, the comb trick really works! I am so glad I found this website. The other day, I got two hickies, and I have never had them before. I have a professional job, so I scoured the web and found you guys. Thanks so much for the great suggestions. It seemed like many people said the comb trick worked, so I tried it, with a twist. I applied Vitamin E oil and moisturizer on my neck and then combed in all directions just for a couple of minutes, until my neck was red. Then I repeated once later. I got the hickies Saturday night, and did this Sunday afternoon. I put more vitamin E on before bed. It's now Monday and the hickies are just shadows! Nobody would guess. Yesterday while the hickies were healing, I covered them with yellow concealer and a bit of green concealer. Yellow covers blue and purple hues, while green covers red hues. Then I covered it with just a little flesh-colored concealer. It worked really well toward the end of the day, when the hickies had gotten lighter. So if you get a hickie, try the comb trick--it's awesome!!

-- Anonymous, September 16, 2002


-- Anonymous, September 18, 2002

YES! YES! YES!!!!! The comb trick is working!!! Also, my dad has a hand held massager for his back....I'm using it too!!!! less painful but still working

Thx...you guys have been a life saver!

-- Anonymous, September 19, 2002

The comb thing does work alright i guess, but I have the biggest hickeys everywhere on my neck. looks like someone tried to choke me. i have no idea what happened, i was really drunk, but its really embarassing. i have to work tomorrow and go to class and there's a guy in my history class that i really like. and this city is way to hot to wear turtle necks. i hope if i keep doing the comb thing and then the spoon thing, i'll be able to cover whatever is left w/ makeup.

that's weird though. i'm still iffy about the comb thing, hickies are bruises, and a bruise is broken capillaries and that takes time to heal.

if i ever find out who that guy is i'm gonna hit him hard.

-- Anonymous, September 23, 2002

My most embarrassing story is of an old girl friend I had when I was working in central africa. We were in bed together getting ready to make love. We were just spending time talking about everything. One of her co-workers had kidded her about hickeys at a party the night before. To my suprise she started talking about them (being very conservitive). She told me when she was in secondary school in Scotland that she began to notice many of the girls in her class started getting love bruises. I asked if they would wear turtle necks and she said no they really did not cover them at all. Both during school and when she was working she had been necking sometimes pretty rough and she knew she had gotten some love bruises. Every time she would check she found that there was nothing there! She went on to say I have allways wondered what it would feel like. I started to kiss her on the neck, She spoke up and said no-not anywhere it will show and I moved down to her breasts kissing and began softly sucking. She then said thats okay no one will see it there. so I gave her a large hickey on the inside of left breast. I pull back to look and boom I was alone in the bed! I looked around and saw my girlfriend at the foot of the bed saying "OH NO!" she was wearing her little black speedo and when she turned to face my I could see a large purple blotch showing. She was now in a panic telling how she and the girls were going to take a cruise on the old lake steamer at the end of the week only a few days away! I said do you have a diffrent suit? she said this is the one that covers the most, I will just not wear a swimsuit! When she got back from her vacation she told me all the girls wanted to know why she was not swimming, and she said well it is that time of the month...

-- Anonymous, October 06, 2002

****I just want to say that i feel for all of you who have hickeys, and don't want to get caught! It's nice to know that i'm not the only one in this situation...keep up with the remedies, because those of us who need the help getting rid of them really appreciate it!....Good luck to all my fellow playettes!...****

-- Anonymous, October 09, 2002

I was off at a bar macking some hookers when one of my many sometime honeys snuck up on me and made like Countess Dracula? What's a playa to do, y'all? Well, son, If it wasn't for my love (wifey poo & I ain't married, know what I'm sayin') that huge purple mark would be aight - but... Well, short of decking that ho - I had to play it off - but when I see that biatch next time - her neck is going to be raw, son! Payback is a bitch. AFter all that - I took that little skeeza home - and banged that bitch out. Skullfucked that biatch till she couldn't see straigt! So, I came to this site, and what y'all said about the comb and lipstick cap and lotion - well, ya gotta be able to take some pain -ya know what I'm saying - but if you don't pussy out like a wimp - that combo of shit be working. So, what I gotta tell you, son - is good lookin out! Just chillin...W.J , Da True Playa

-- Anonymous, October 12, 2002

My girlfriend found out I never had a hickey, so she pounced on me like a lion on a wildabeast. She started sucking like a hoover, and I put both my hands on her face in an effort to pry her off. The harder I pushed, the harder she sucked, and the result is a hickey the size of montana and the color of an eggplant right on the side of my neck. I thought it was pretty funny before I looked in the mirror. But, when I saw it's award winning size, I got a little steamed. Now I'm back to thinking it's hilarious, especially since my own mother was practically rolling on the floor laughing when she saw my girlfriend's handywork.

-- Anonymous, October 12, 2002

I'm the hoover sucking girlfriend :)

-- Anonymous, October 12, 2002

I have a story for you. I was just sitting in my friends hot tub with like 6 other people when one of the guys started kissing my neck and i tried to get him to stop but he wouldnt,no one would help me either (nice friends they are huh). what should i do to get rid of them?

-- Anonymous, October 16, 2002

HOLY FUCKINí HICKEYS!!!! I cannot believe so many people have this little bugger problem!! Well, I am presently 20yrs old and never ever had a hickey on my skin, and never will, but I have found my knight in shining armour and apparently he likes being covered by hickeys, although heís never had one too, UNTIL I CAME IN THE PICTURE!!!! I just wanna warn the bitches out there that he is taken, Iíd rather hickey him than piss on him. The problem is that here in south africa, all these young people, the youth and all behave like panting little annoying hyenas when they see a yummy hunk passing, then they wanna strip live to be noticed. Same as guys, but that is the male species problem. So for me, my man likes his mark to be renewed as often as possible, and I do it personally, he is MINE> finish and

-- Anonymous, October 16, 2002

is it possible to get hickey on ur lips?

-- Anonymous, October 16, 2002

STEFI...Oyi!!! R U coocoo? You cannot get hickeys on your lips, othewise if you did, everybody...well, almost everybody around you would be walking with a fuckin' hickey on their sore lips. cos that is the most place where normal people kiss, suck and pull and all that!!! Actually, i shouldn't have answered that silly question!!! Are there sum mo takers out ther

-- Anonymous, October 17, 2002

Well, i've had hikey's before and never really worried about covering htem up, but last night my man and I got a lil bubbly and of course these are the times when you get the biggest reddiest nastiest hickey placed in the one spot that is mos obvious, right?!? the problem with my hickey is it extends from the tp of my neck to my collar line, and on top of that it's my little nephews b-day so i have to b arund family all day. i'm trying the comb thing i can say it's helping, it' not all gone but it has lighten it up a bit. i also have toothpaste, aloe vera an corizon smeared all over my neck. hahaha the troubles we get into. good luck

-- Anonymous, October 19, 2002

first of all..I just wanted to say to stefi, that yeah..you can get hickeys on your lips....usually, it just turns your lips red for a few days.... ok anywayz, heres my embarassing hickey story...a few hours ago I was making out with this guy.he was suckin on my neck and chest a littlt bit...but it wasn't that hard, so I didn't think I'd get a hickey.......fuck was I wrong! they look like choke marks! no shit! and they are really huge and really really dark!!so now it looks like somebody attacked me or something...been massaging them & I'm gonna try the comb thing, and the frozen spoons......and hopefully tomorrow they won't be so noticable!

-- Anonymous, October 20, 2002

I don't have a really embarrassing hickey story...yet... but last night when my boy was over we were chillin on my couch and he started suckin on my neck. He's done it before and the results weren't so bad. But this time he must have done something different cuz its reddish purple color and its 2 in diameter is really easily seen. I was wondering if anyone could help me or give me some advice in how to lighten the little buger up. Especially since next week is homecoming and being one of the candidates I don't think it will look very good if I have a huge suck mark on my neck. Thanx to anyone who can help me!!!

-- Anonymous, October 20, 2002

hi well the other night i was at my boyfriends house and he is 18 and im 15 and my mam and dad dont know im going out with him and he gave me a hickey on my neck! I said he could tho so I guess its my fault! anyway all i can say is : hickeys dont hurt to much, its kind of a nice sensation. Im wearing my hair down and also wearing polo neck jumpers. there's my story watch this space for a more embarrasing story! see ya all laterz if u have msn feel free 2 add me if not feel free 2 email me! BYE!


-- Anonymous, October 20, 2002

aight,its been 20 mins since my g/f pounced on me like a fuckin wildcat and now im sittin here(12:30 in the morning)holding a comb to my neck.I really hope it works!ttyl

-- Anonymous, October 20, 2002

Hi thereÖagain. Well, this weekend was my b/fís birthday. Actually Friday was his birthday and I cooked some really nice dinner for him, bought some bubbly and candle light to just suŖ the mood. I was a lady for the very first time in my life. Wearing a very nice short, almost transparent dress-and that is such an effort for someone who hates wearing dresses and all women/girly stuff. We had dinner and I was the finest desert. He made sweet love to me but after a while I just wanted to visit the wilderness and we had one of those wild rough shags. I donít know what I did to him, but in the morning when I woke up, he was sleeping right next to me, I looked at him and to my surprise it looked as if someone was strangling him. His WHOLE neck was red and I did it! I was so *&%@@ at myself. Later on Saturday he returned the favour and funny enuff I did not feel any pain whatsoever. We were surprised when we saw it after the same scenario as before. But now I am at work and we work together, but he usually comes in later in the day cos heís got morning lectures. I am trying all I can for them not to notice my blood red neck cos it is really hot here in South Africa and I cannot wear turtle necks and all that. I canít even wear a scarf or anything cos thatís girly stuff and they know I never dress like that. what the hel

-- Anonymous, October 21, 2002

you guys are a bunch of morons

-- Anonymous, October 25, 2002

Hey whats up everyone??? well last nite me and my b/f were fooling around and he started to suck on my neck... i liked the sensation... but he sucked sooo hard... and know i have this HUGE hickey on my neck... i wanted to know how to get rid of them? i have long hair and i put concealer on it... but i heard that combing them out works... if anyone has any suggestions.. email me

-- Anonymous, October 26, 2002

OMG... I have this HUGE hickey on my neck - and the guy who did it was like, "omg, I'm soooo sorry!" because he didn't think that he was going that hard... but I'll tell you it felt hella good when he was doing it, but he felt bad since I have to "go through all that shit" to cover it up (in his words). Sweet, huh? I didn't trip, esp. cuz this is my first real hickey (at least in a visible place), and I don't really wear turtlenecks or scarfs... and I'm a church girl, and so I haveeeeeeeeeeee to get rid of this thing... at the moment, I've tried the lipstick thing and the comb, and it's lightening up a little bit... but... *sigh* I think I'm going to be wearing a grip of powder and foundation because I tried it earlier and it really really hid a lot if I used a lot of it... but some are swearing by the lipstick twist and the comb-over... I say it helps, and maybe it works differently for different skin colors and depends on how dark the hickey is (for me, I'm flip so I'm a semi-dark-brown color, naturally tanned, but I'm kinda light right now, so it's hella annoying for me to work this thing because it came up PURPLE... and I don't usually bruise easily - but the neck is a different story)

To everyone else, good luck... this has been a great thread....

-- Anonymous, October 30, 2002

i'm a bartender, and i have a bf...well, i'm not exactly the best gf, and last nite i met this totally hot guy...well, he helped me close down the bar...we ended up making out hardcore in his truck...we both agreed that this was not a serious thing considering we are both in relationships...anyhow, i don't know what the hell he was thinking but he ended up giving me this huge hickey right in the front of my neck...this site is awesum...i tried the comb thing, frozen spoons, hot air...and to tell you the truth, my hickey is alot lighter...almost gone...thank god...i'm s'pozed to see my bf in a coupla hours...i think all the remedies combined worked best for me...i used a toothbrush instead of a comb though...i know one thing, i will be much more careful in the future...

-- Anonymous, October 31, 2002

Hello, My name is Dan and the other night i was at a party with a lot of friends. There were about 20 gurls and 3 guys. The other 2 guys had girlfriends and they were there so they couldnt do any dares with other girls so that left me with all of those girls. Someone came up with the idea to have a hickey contest. My best friend (Robbie) and his girlfriend were a pair and another couple and so i had 4 gurls in the contest that got my neck. 1 of the girls that was on my neck won, but i still ended up with 4 hickeys on my neck. I am 14 and hav never been given hickeys before. i thought it felt great. and i was not ashamed of them, but that changed when my mom came to pick me up. My parents are divorced and i live with my mom. She didnt see them till sat. morning. i thought she was going to blow a gasget but she didnt. i told her about the contest and told her we werent having sex and she calmed down. i still have them and id like to learn the diff. tricks on getting them to go away or lighten up. e- mail me if u know. Thanks

-- Anonymous, November 03, 2002

It's so good to know that I am not the only one in search for quick hickey fixes. I'm currently in the process of combing mine out. So far it looks good. But keep your fingers crossed for me. I don't exactly have the best luck, as you can see. So far my mom has bought my story (yes, I am in college, but I still live with my mom and yes she still asks questions). Oh yeah, my story was that the kids I work with decided to be funny and put the suction cups on my neck and pull them out. She believes me; the kids I work with are devils. Thanks for all the tips, you really have no idea how much I appreciate them! Actually some of you might.

-- Anonymous, November 05, 2002

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