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I'm sorry to do this, but I've been sitting here getting spammed by someone, and as much fun as it is to sit here and delete posts all night, I think that I am just going to delete the forum altogether.

I will say that the person spamming the forum is the one person online who has ever truly frightened me. (It wasn't Dave van, I guess. I'd apologize to Dave, but that wouldn't make such good reading on "The Truth About Rob"...) I simply don't have time to sit here and delete Mike Leung's posts as he makes them, and I'm not digging the fact that every time he does it, all the people who subscribe to the forum via email get another of his spam messages.

This was a fun experiment, and one that I grew to enjoy. If there were a way to block this person, I would. Perhaps I'll find another forum program that will allow me to do so. We'll see.

Thanks to everyone who has made this so much fun. I'll miss you all.

-- Anonymous, July 05, 2000

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Rob, I'm sorry the forum came to this end. I hope it can be reincarnated at some future date, and not just because I need closure on the tattoo saga. It was fun to read, and often the strange jogs the posts took made for the best forums. I mourn it's passing, and I hope it to be temporary. Man do I not have a life or what?

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

June 16th came my approval to join the Book of Rob. Within the next couple of weeks I was reading messages from people brought together, from literally all over the world,to talk about quirky things, mundane things (but never uninteresting). I know the forum had gone on for sometime before I discovered ( my first experience with this format) it, and it is truly maddening that one person can destroy so much work. Rob, the ride, though brief, was a real party. Thanks.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

Rob:

I know Delphi does offer a free forum service. You have to sign up and register to get access to the forum, but it does allow you to block people's accounts and other moderator type things and they don't spam or sell the email addresses. Try
-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


I'm writing from Cape Town. For many years I worked as an anti- apartheid activist in South Africa and I want to say that it is important to fight sabotage and interpersonal ugliness on the Internet if there is to be some chance for on-line communities and freedom of expression. Don't let the resentment and envy of others dictate your choices. Or they stay on-line and go on manipulating and driving people away. I believe freedom of expression is an incremental process -- we take care of the small daily struggles against vindictive pettiness and that alone keeps a small space free for those of us who care about the future of this medium.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

I'll already said so to you directly Rob, but feel the need to do so publicly as well. I am truly saddened to see that it has come down to this. I hope that you are able to find a solution to the problem and that the forum can one day return.

It is obvious that it will be missed.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


I think everyone involved is going to miss this forum. Everyone from the usual posters, to the lurkers, to the pains in the ass that like to continue on as such.

But, I think the important thing is that it's not something enjoyable for Rob anymore. Certainly we are all inclined to rid ourselves of the negativity in our lives.

Rob knows what's best for him, what he needs to do. I'm totally behind that.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000



Hi, lurker speaking. I recently shut down my own forum for much the same reasons (Dave Van was not involved, although some other individuals of questionable character were) and I have to say that I support Rob's decision although I know it totally sucks. When I closed the forum down, I felt like I was saying goodbye to a friend (albeit a time-consuming, sometimes obnoxious friend, but hey, what are friends for?).

I do like the idea of setting up a delphi forum, though, if they can really block users. It seems like, much as on the American highway system, it only takes a few losers to make things suck for everybody.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


Who is Dan Van? Does he write a journal? Why is he obsessed with Rob? I was reading about journals.com and Rob mentioned someone that was going to contact his wife about the sex of the baby, is that Dan van? That is messed up. I'm sorry you have to shut down this forum, but if this guy has done things like the aforementioned I don't blame you.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

DOH!

Thanks everyone for the tattoo info... now I wish I had printed it out!!

And thanks, Rob...

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


Ohhhhhh, I see he's a midget?

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

I think it's really unfortunate that Dave is allowed to have this much power in the journaling scene. I don't blame Rob -- lord knows I've done my share of deleting Dave spam -- but it just sucks when Dave wins like this. It really does.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


We'll miss the forum Rob.It was a good thing (if I can quote Martha Stewart). Understand the reasons your taking it down and I really hate that one nasty indiviual would be as this petty. This person must have way to much spare time on his hands.

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

i'm sorry to see this forum go; it was quite fun to pop in occasionally! i never saw the posts which caused all this, and i'm really glad i missed them! i'll miss this forum, too. it's just too bad that one stupid, and if i may say it, shitty person, can ruin the fun of so many others. i'm ashamed to admit i actually still had his (the bad guy)journal linked on my page, although i hadn't visited it in a very long time. it's gone, now, and i'm sorry i ever had it up. rob, i hope you'll be able to find a forum where you can block the unsavoury types, and the rest of us can come and play safely! cheers, hez

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000

Geez, this sucks. *sigh*

Thanks for the fun, Rob. You know we're still here, still reading the journal.

Julie, Cerebrations

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


Kate! Don't get that tattoo! Next thing you know, you'll be tooling around in that Mustang with a Camel hanging from your lips!

[To those of you who do not understand that this is a joke, (i) be assured that it is, and (ii) please accept my deepest condolences.]

-- Anonymous, July 06, 2000


You know, I had never read Dave Van's journal when I began hearing people talk about what a fuckwit he was, but I did wonder what the deal was when he apparently had such a huge readership for someone so unpopular. So I tried to read a few entries - and found him totally unremarkable and uninteresting, whereas I have never found a single entry of Rob's to be without interest and humor. It seems to me that the only way this guy can be a playa on the journaling scene at all is to be the maggot in everyone's apple, and that's so pathetic and puerile that I can't believe someone his age could find value in that.

It pisses me off that someone like that has the power to kill a fun, witty new forum populated mostly by good people. That kind of harrassment should be prosecutable. Would any of us put up with someone like that jamming hate mail in their real mailbox, or standing outside their window screaming obscenities? I value the freedom of the Web, but this guy's behavior reeks of harrassment, even assault. Van's a bully and an ass. I'm sorry the playground got closed down because he pissed on it.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


I was talking to a co-worker/friend this afternoon. He likes to listen to Rush Limbaugh. I admitted that I very occasionally found his bombast and bluster entertaining. He then mentioned that Oliver North had a radio show. And I told my friend I would never listen to Oliver North because of the extreme dishonor he brought on himself and the reprehensible way that he tried to pass of his treason as somehow serving the good of our country.

I see these malicious acts in the exact same light. I almost pity this nobody for the smallness and blackness of his heart.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


I've been limiting my online time lately, so I never read the spam in question. I'm just sorry that Van's pettiness caused this forum to be shut down. It's been fun to read and fun to post. Maybe you could start a forum at Delphi, as someone else has suggested. Should that day happen, I'll be back, reading and posting.

I'll still be enjoying the Book of Rob, though!

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


http://www.mikeleung.com/2000/satan.html. It was Mike, guys, not Dave.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000

Holy shit - some of these people need to step away from the computer and get a life.
It's one thing keeping a journal about what's going on in your life, or what's you thinking. But putting in that much time and energy for something so totally and utterly useless is both sad and scary.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000

I don't understand this at all. Is Mike the one doing it, or is he just chronicling the whole stupid thing for his own entertainment?

Jesus...

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


Mike is the one who was spamming the forum, which led you to shut it down. If you go to this entry, he confirms it. Per the other, who knows, but in terms of disrupting this forum, it was not Dave.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000

Wow, there it is. Thanks, Lynda. I guess Dave's been too busy with the Truth About Rob.

I'm going to shut this whole forum down later today, so perhaps it doesn't matter, but I'll make the appropriate changes to this thread...

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


Either he's benign or malignant.

Benign - he's doing this to get his ego stroked by the increase on his hit counter by those of us who drop that url into our browsers to see what sort of shit he's pulling.

Malignant - he really does hate Rob, in the full sense of the word. If this is indeed the case, then it's downright scary that someone would obsess and fixate so much on someone (I assume) he's never met and really knows nothing about, other than what's been put forth here and in The Book Of Rob.

Recently here in Toronto and the surrounding area, there's been a rash of murder-suicides of women & children by their estranged husbands/fathers, despite there being restraining orders and all. My wife and I sit and wonder what such person is thinking (if at all) when they do such horrible evil acts. Then I see all the shit that's going down here in this forum thanks to you-know-who and I begin to get a smidgen of insight into the working of such a warped mind that's in serious need of professional help.

Fingers and toes crossed here that it's the former that's pushing his buttons.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


make it gone, man. have some pride and hold true to your word.

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000

(This will obviously only get to those of you who get email notification...)

I'm shutting it down for good, I just want to be done with this and get on with my life.

Thanks for reading, and hopefully I'll see you in email or on my journal. (And not on my doorstep, wielding an axe...)

That was a joke...

-- Anonymous, July 07, 2000


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