What are your opinions on relationships? On any aspect. Just write!

-- Piper (piperdane@yahoo.com), June 27, 2000

Answers

Men r confusing, why do they cuddle with, give u massages, call u cute and act all sweet and hug you and then the next day, nuttin!!! Argh, thats my current gripe on relationships, any guys got an explanation for such behavior?

-- l (lilaclorax@yahoo.com), June 27, 2000.

Now, does the guy ever come back? Does he eventually call, or is that it?

If yes, I think it means they're totally clueless about the whole thing.

If no, the guy's just a jerk. I haven't really figured them out yet.

And they accuse us of playing games...

-- Piper (piperdane @yahoo.com), June 27, 2000.

Think twice, or more, speak once, in a soft, respectful voice and show a smile at the same time. Then hump your butt to make the show go. Advice from me to me.

-- Denver doug (ionoi@webtv.net), June 28, 2000.

Anyone who has read my journal (pimp: http://www.crosswinds.net/ ~ladyluck23 ) will know that my relationships with guys are never smooth. :-) It hits a 9 month mark and then it all goes to hell... Is there something about a 9 month mark that makes guys decide to be asses?

In any case, I love relationships, no matter how difficult a time I have with them. There is something inordinately comfortable about having an "understanding" and a more intimate level with someone that even exists on a different level than those of your friends...

Of course, that might be part of my problem...;-)

-- Cat Kelly (ladyluck23@crosswinds.net), June 28, 2000.

I tend to have sex way too soon in a relationship. I don't go into the sex part thinking that it is going to be a short term thing. It just ends up being that way. I can't seem to help myself though. *L*

I know what L means about the guy coming on strong one day and the next nothing. I sort of got an explanation on that one from a guy. He told me that he didn't call me every day and come over because he didn't want me to get tired of or annoyed with him. I told him that if I needed time away from him or vice versa that we should just tell each other and not assume that the other person is feeling this way. So unless they never call you again maybe this is the problem.

Seven Thirteen

-- Rachel (rachel@seventhirteen.com), June 29, 2000.

The answer is in my journal... Go here!

-- Someone Passing By... (someone.passing.by@zonnet.nl), July 04, 2000.