So what's up with this fat chicks thing? : LUSENET : Neurotica : One Thread

Men will fuck fat chicks, but they won't date them.

Why is this?

Embarassment? Disgust?

I honestly don't get it.

Do you?

-- Anonymous, May 14, 2000


Well, I don't get it either, and perhaps I shouldn't even try, since I'm married and shit, but your link to this forum reminded me of Tree's joke:

Men just want to fuck skinny chics to make their dicks look bigger.

of course, that doesn't explain why Chad wanted to fuck ME. Poor guy.

-- Anonymous, May 14, 2000

Umm, in case this is news to anyone: most men will fuck anything.

However, it's a lot bigger pool and it's an attempt to try to look like you have some sort of standards when you seek a BBW. Here's what some of those ads really should say:

Man seeks woman with hole. Showering a plus.

But I really do think it's a fetish when you see the "normal" ads, those men (who are honestly looking for a good relationship, which most likely if they're advertising in the SNR they're probably not) are just looking for the right woman, thin or heavy, and specifying which would narrow his pool of potential women. Yeah, men put that "thin" or "in-shape" clause in there... and why shouldn't he? If he has issues about heavy women, why waste her time or his if he's not going to be attracted or interested.

And obviously BBW *are* good enough to marry, because a lot of heavy people are married. (Then there's people like me who were getting there but not quite heavy until *after* marriage... guess that's a whole 'nother story. heh)

-- Anonymous, May 14, 2000

I don't know. I'm a big woman, have been for years (though I did just find out why I can't lose weight, PCOS, what a wonderful thing, Not).

I never went long without a boyfriend though. My friends and sister have mentioned that guys don't date fat chicks. I just never saw it, maybe it's my incredibly personality (giggle, giggle, snort). Or maybe part of it is I always dated older guys. They seem to worry less about what people think and more about their relationship.

-- Anonymous, May 19, 2000

HEY!!! Include me OUT of that remark!!! :D I've dated large women, small women and women in the middle. Consider this: the average American male is brainwashed into figuring "Hey, I MUST have the Brtiney Spears(ok, it was Debbie Gibson back in my day!)lookalike or I will get no respect." Then you have the realistic men who, while appearance and general outward attributes mean something, don't bank the whole farm on it. Then you have people like Stein...he's a slut...he'll bang anyone. :D But for the record, his current woman is on the Lane Bryant side, but she's a hottie. :)

-- Anonymous, May 24, 2000

Considering that I've only had one real "boyfriend" and yet I've had several male sex partners, I would have to agree. I mean, men have been known to put their dicks into anything that'll take them: Crisco, vacuum cleaner hoses, roast beef, animals, etc.

I remember somebody thought that I needed consolation about getting a man (after I once said that I wasn't really into men at all -- gee I wonder why) told me all about "chubby chasers." What intelligent, overweight woman is supposed to be flattered by that? Of course, maybe it's sort of nice to be used for your body just like thin people are, for a change. Ha ha. And don't even get me started on "feeders." That creeps me out.

Actually, I guess I'm the wrong person to be giving opinion on men. I've dabbled in them, but it didn't take.

-- Anonymous, June 01, 2000

I need to post in my own forums more often damnit.

PCOS? What's that?

And I find it highly amusing that my ex-fiance posts in here. Hi Ed!

-- Anonymous, June 11, 2000

You find it amusing that I post here? Is that a good kind of amusing, the bad kind of amusing or the "Well picking my nose is amusing too, if you want to look at it that way" amusing? :D

Hi Mar! heheh

-- Anonymous, June 16, 2000

It's palin & simple ... men love to FUCK & fat chicks are usually hard up & they will just fuck anyone .. So the guys aren't stupid & they take advantage of this ....

-- Anonymous, November 12, 2000

This is a forum overrun by chicks with attitude. Not all guys are out for a quickie. You complain about males being brainwashed into thinking they must have a thin. WHat about females that are brainwashed into stereotyping all guys like you women do. Personally I haven't had an intimate relationship with anyone, simply becuase I don't feel the need for one yet. I'm a student and being attached just is not that appealing right now. Yes that's right I'm 19years old and still haven't f***ed anyone and I'm not planning on any time soon.

-- Anonymous, November 16, 2000

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