"Your children are not your children. They are the sons & daughters of life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you & though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,which you cannot visit,not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness." Kahlil Gibran

-- TomK (tjk@cac.net), June 24, 2001

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"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." --God (in the book of Proverbs)

-- Skip Walton (sundaycreek@gnrac.net), June 24, 2001.