It won't matter to them if you have no assets or income - they will continue to hound you and solicitor's letters telling them that you are broke are also not worth the paper they're written on. I have four kids and no assets, only debts. Eleven + years on my Lender is still trying to make my life a misery.I wish I had a good suggestion for you - nothing has ever worked in my case. I appreciate the sentiment behind the responses so far, but they won't go away. If you have any real or perceived financial interest in your new husband's assets, I would respectfully suggest you get rid of it on paper at least rather pronto (particularly if your name is on the house deeds of your home together.)(posted 7871 days ago)