seperation only option repossion

I am wondering if some one can help me.I own a house with my exgirlfriend we splitup 3 months ago she moved out we bought the house about 2 years ago and have a 50% repayment 50% endownment morgage.I have always payed the morgage and any bills in the house old, she is now on social. We r not married but have a 3 year old kid and our only tie is the house,she not arsed about getting the house swapped into my name or even selling it. i have talked to a solicitor about selling the house he says she knock it back and i have to apply for division of sale which can take time and cost only me money in solicitor fees i was told maybe years depending on how funny she is>She very funny so i expect the worst She keeps threatening me with breaking down the house door and clearing me out and by law she can do this. Im living in fear so getting on with my life so this leads me to why i need some advise, i feel that the only way out is to stop paying the morgage repossion, this would mean she would be liable as well as me, but also means i would be in a lot of debt. If i was to move out of the country and go aboard would i be able to get finance in a foreign country i.e another morgage or loan or would i be black listed for life???? and never be able to get a house again? anywere in the EU?????

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