I still don't understand some of this. If the house was comp- purchased, how come it was repossessed and sold?(posted 8308 days ago)Other than that, get some legal advice. You should get legal aid given your income. I would advocate NOT completing the form. The reasons are outlined elsewhere on the site but in essence, they use the form to work out how much cash they can screw out of you. If/When you get legal advice, get your solicitor to look at the site, as this area of law is very specialised, and however nice the solicitor, unless you really strike it lucky the chances are he/she won't know much about it. We do.
Remember above all, they have no right to know about your income - only your partners.
3 years isn't a big enough delay to bring the human rights stuff in, particularly if your partner changed her name to make it difficult to find her!
Now is probably a good time to switch any savings etc into your name.